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JFK · 07-29-2009, 03:07 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

no

the reason I failed was me. I was responsibe, buck stops with me.

I lost everything.

my fault.

I've come to terms with that.

Onwards and Upwards Scott

San · 07-29-2009, 03:07 AM

WWC · 07-29-2009, 03:08 AM

Wow man...sorry to hear. Life is an experience itself...this is why i try to live a simple life, never ever go over your limit in anything you do and be satisfied with what you have today and let tomorrow play itself....but dont forget to always plan everything ahead and measure twice cut once! Better days to you.....

San · 07-29-2009, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

this is getting too personal. I'm gona have your ip traced. I want to know who you are.

Ron2k1 · 07-29-2009, 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by San

Machete_ · 07-29-2009, 03:14 AM

I hope you learned from it.

If you ever want to do a thing like this again, hire legal professional advice

pocketkangaroo · 07-29-2009, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

it's not about money but I'm gona see that one though, he started a LOT of problems for me

Good luck with it. Hope it works out and this guy goes down for it.

If you're selling basic text links off SleazyDream.com, drop me an e-mail with rates.

HerPimp · 07-29-2009, 03:24 AM

That contractor seemed like he bullied and shook the cash out of you. That whole threatening bullshit I'm sure played a big role in the stress and writing the post.

Start fresh with a new city.

SleazyDream · 07-29-2009, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by KrisH

I hope you learned from it.

If you ever want to do a thing like this again, hire legal professional advice

actually I did better legal work myself than any of the lawyers I hired. total raket

SleazyDream · 07-29-2009, 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo

Good luck with it. Hope it works out and this guy goes down for it.

If you're selling basic text links off SleazyDream.com, drop me an e-mail with rates.

yes we do, all done though cybercat as usual!!!!!

theking · 07-29-2009, 03:32 AM

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Originally Posted by theking

It is a good thing if you have come to terms with yourself...as that can sometimes be a difficult thing to do. I wish you better success on any future ventures. By the way I like your dog. I had to put one of my two dogs down...I did it myself and I have had to come to terms with that.

BTW...how old is your dog now?

SleazyDream · 07-29-2009, 03:32 AM

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Originally Posted by theking

BTW...how old is your dog now?

almost 9

Jakke PNG · 07-29-2009, 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I am prepared to accept all the 'deadbeat' comments as I deserve them except in the land deal case - that one I did give to the trustee and they even found no merit in it for the guy.

Blah. Why bother with deadbeat comments, don't worry about them. Shit happens in life.
I'm in a small pickle myself due to some recent lawchanges in finland, but things will work out. I don't have money, traffic or anything else ..but I'd help out if I could.

(seriously too).

Machete_ · 07-29-2009, 03:36 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

actually I did better legal work myself than any of the lawyers I hired. total raket

How can legal professional advice tell you to run all those investments under your own name in one single company? Did you find them through GFY?

Emil · 07-29-2009, 03:43 AM

theking · 07-29-2009, 03:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Jakke PNG

Blah. Why bother with deadbeat comments, don't worry about them. Shit happens in life.
I'm in a small pickle myself due to some recent lawchanges in finland, but things will work out. I don't have money, traffic or anything else ..but I'd help out if I could.

(seriously too).

Did you complete college and if so what did you get a degree in?

JimmiDean · 07-29-2009, 03:49 AM

Hi Scott.
Sorry to hear your story, very big of you to share it.
As bizz owners we are all risk takers and walk the razor on a daily basis.
As the saying goes "There but before the grace of God go I"
Welcome back.

brand0n · 07-29-2009, 04:14 AM

not 1 person has done it in 3 fucking pages so allow me

IDIOT

Manowar · 07-29-2009, 04:14 AM

bad to hear about that sleazy, but welcome back to the adult game!

brand0n · 07-29-2009, 04:26 AM

that being said..

what are your plans?

the day of you living on the fact your tgp got a ton of traffic with min amount work are OVER.

i follow all the major tgp traffic trends, as im sure you do, and you know as well as i do that the tubes are fucking murdering tgps.

sleazydreamstube.com ?

good luck with that..

you lucked out with your tgp, and now everything is changed.

do you have a game plan?..

Ron2k1 · 07-29-2009, 04:34 AM

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Originally Posted by brand0n

that being said..

what are your plans?

Good question, I wonder how many of the oldskool webmasters who never innovated will keep on track in the next year.

2MuchMark · 07-29-2009, 04:34 AM

That's quite a story! Glad to see that you are pulling thru, and have come back to where you belong! I'm pretty sure that many of us reading this have learned lessons the hard way as well, so don't fret it. Take as much know-how as you can from this experience forward with you and you'll be alright.

Cheers!

Jakke PNG · 07-29-2009, 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by theking

Did you complete college and if so what did you get a degree in?

Yes. I have a bachelor in business administration (information technology). Worthless piece of shit paper.

Why do you ask? Planning on hiring me? :P

San · 07-29-2009, 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Jakke PNG

Yes. I have a bachelor in business administration (information technology). Worthless piece of shit paper.

You still married? How's family life?

Jakke PNG · 07-29-2009, 04:51 AM

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Originally Posted by San

You still married? How's family life?

Lol. Well, this is a thread about Sleazy..but yes, I'm still married and family life is blissful (how else?). Wife goes to work and supports my adult hobby ;)

Pornopat · 07-29-2009, 04:59 AM

I am sorry to read this all happened to you.
You are a good man and I am sure good carma will come to you.

MrMaxwell · 07-29-2009, 05:02 AM

Don't forget.. If you believe in Karma, then, by default this is also believed by you:
Karma is MADE.. by ME..

evie · 07-29-2009, 05:08 AM

Sorry to hear that Scott, Eva sends her love as well. This is Paul.

If we can do anything to help hit us up on ICQ. Got some free content if you need it.

Pete-KT · 07-29-2009, 05:18 AM

That's crazy sleazy. I'm glad to see you back on your feet and putting this behind you. Hit me up on icq later let's talk about some things

halfpint · 07-29-2009, 05:22 AM

Best of luck on getting yourself back on your feet

Iron Fist · 07-29-2009, 05:29 AM

Good luck and keep on truckin'

slapass · 07-29-2009, 05:33 AM

Keep in mind that everyone on this board who had some decent cash in 2006 has less now. Real estate, stocks, tgp's, paysites, domains have all gone down in value. You are not alone. Also if I remember right you were in another line of work before adult and successful so you have experience switching and remaking yourself. Still sucks but I am sure you will be fine.

Miz_Wright · 07-29-2009, 06:06 AM

Scott, it takes balls to admit you've made mistakes.

Just like the stock market, all ventures need a sell strategy - a bit that all too often is missed in the planning.

It's good to have you back and hungry to make your way back up the food chain. Remember this bit: karma isn't for us to mete out; that will come to those on its own time. The question is this: do you make this a positive going forward?

the.drunk · 07-29-2009, 06:46 AM

good luck

Fletch XXX · 07-29-2009, 06:59 AM

Stand strong man, as an old client of mine, if there is anything I can do to help, you just say the word.

Twistys Tim · 07-29-2009, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy

Wow, what a thread. You know what though, like someone mentioned earlier, some of the most successful people in life go through extreme ups and extreme downs.

Ray Croc comes to mind.

AL4A · 07-29-2009, 07:02 AM

Scott, Sorry to hear about all of the crap. I was there for you in the beginning and I will be there now for you. If you need anything...PLEASE contact me. Me and Wifey miss seeing you around. I think she has a crush on you ;)

AL

JFK · 07-29-2009, 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Twistys Tim

Ray Croc comes to mind.

read this

http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/07/...ion/index.html

Phoenix · 07-29-2009, 07:14 AM

best wishes scott....you will bounce back im sure

MediaGuy · 07-29-2009, 07:18 AM

Wow. Stunning news. You did good to go upfront about it, believe me I know from experience - about bankruptcies, ex-wives, and so on.

Glad I read it here first so I didn't fall on my ass when you tell me at the next show :P

What can I say? The reason sucks, but Welcome back! You were missed.

:D

quiet · 07-29-2009, 07:42 AM

holy shit. damn Scott... just, damn. i don't know what else to say.

candyflip · 07-29-2009, 07:42 AM

That's quite a story. I don't feel quite so bad about closing down my Deli now before it had a chance to clean us out too.

Bryan G · 07-29-2009, 08:21 AM

Sorry to hear, best of luck

Rochard · 07-29-2009, 09:12 AM

Wow. Interesting story.

Life has ups and downs. It's how you treat people when you up high that determines how your treated during your lows.

Socks · 07-29-2009, 09:43 AM

How did you keep shares in your corporations through bankruptcy? I thought they took all assets, including shares?

media · 07-29-2009, 09:52 AM

Fuck the haters Sleazy!!!! Rise and Fall is something many people go through, the roller coaster of life only goes down so far before it climbs right back to the next peak!

I've been through the fall after my lawsuit and divorce.. The blowback from it all was CRIPPLING and I'm still dealing with it.. but its getting a hell of a lot better than it was.

You're keeping your head up Scott, thats all that matters!!!

Loryn · 07-29-2009, 10:00 AM

Baby you totally rock!!! Your story is amazing. The fact that you took chances with risk, tells me that you will make it again because you have got "it" in you!!! That is what makes a person successful. Every person who has worked hard and has money has failed a hundred times. I have made a lot of money with the stock market and lost a lot of money with the stock market, and I know I will get there again one day, just like you will!!! You have the talent, the brains, and the heart to do it again and this time you will do it even better!!!

Welcome back my big huggy bear (hehe) I can't wait to hang with you again at all the shows and laugh. We have had some good times together and I am glad you are back so we can pick up where we left off.

I have only read your post in this thread so far, but I wanted to jump in and let you know how I feel and that I am glad you are back. Now I am going to read the thread. I am sure everyone is happy to have Sleazy back. I know you will be back on top very soon!!!

WOO HOO Sleazy's back baby!!!

who · 07-29-2009, 10:02 AM

Serious business.

Raven · 07-29-2009, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

I might be a failure, that doesn't mean I'm not an asshole

Just because endeavours fail doesn't make YOU a failure.

Pick your chin up off the floor, Scott. Bankruptcy was put into place for the very
reasons you stated. It's a huge club, including some pretty high powered members.

You live. You learn. And, then you get up, dust yourself off, and move on.

You did it six years ago. You'll do it now.

You are not a failure and by all means, keep calling out the idiots.

I wish you well.

corvette · 07-29-2009, 10:06 AM

hey scott, very candid post, your a bright guy and will bounce back from this, no doubt

PS i suggest you dont contact your ex-wife ;)

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07-29-2009, 03:14 AM	#106
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07-29-2009, 04:14 AM	#119
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brand0n been very busy Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: the queen city Posts: 26,983	that being said.. what are your plans? the day of you living on the fact your tgp got a ton of traffic with min amount work are OVER. i follow all the major tgp traffic trends, as im sure you do, and you know as well as i do that the tubes are fucking murdering tgps. sleazydreamstube.com ? good luck with that.. you lucked out with your tgp, and now everything is changed. do you have a game plan?.. __________________ want to buy this spot for cheap? it is of course for sale. long term deals are always the best bet. brand0n/ at/ a o l dot commies.

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07-29-2009, 05:18 AM	#129
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07-29-2009, 06:06 AM	#133
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07-29-2009, 07:14 AM	#139
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07-29-2009, 07:18 AM	#140
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07-29-2009, 07:42 AM	#141
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07-29-2009, 07:42 AM	#142
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07-29-2009, 09:43 AM	#145
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07-29-2009, 09:52 AM	#146
media Confirmed Moneymaker Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Eugene, OR It's Like Jail, Only with Trees! Posts: 9,851	Fuck the haters Sleazy!!!! Rise and Fall is something many people go through, the roller coaster of life only goes down so far before it climbs right back to the next peak! I've been through the fall after my lawsuit and divorce.. The blowback from it all was CRIPPLING and I'm still dealing with it.. but its getting a hell of a lot better than it was. You're keeping your head up Scott, thats all that matters!!! __________________ I'm here for the violence!

07-29-2009, 10:00 AM	#147
Loryn Super Connector Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 12,853	Baby you totally rock!!! Your story is amazing. The fact that you took chances with risk, tells me that you will make it again because you have got "it" in you!!! That is what makes a person successful. Every person who has worked hard and has money has failed a hundred times. I have made a lot of money with the stock market and lost a lot of money with the stock market, and I know I will get there again one day, just like you will!!! You have the talent, the brains, and the heart to do it again and this time you will do it even better!!! Welcome back my big huggy bear (hehe) I can't wait to hang with you again at all the shows and laugh. We have had some good times together and I am glad you are back so we can pick up where we left off. I have only read your post in this thread so far, but I wanted to jump in and let you know how I feel and that I am glad you are back. Now I am going to read the thread. I am sure everyone is happy to have Sleazy back. I know you will be back on top very soon!!! WOO HOO Sleazy's back baby!!! __________________ ~ loryn@loryntaylor . com ~ RIP TD

07-29-2009, 10:02 AM	#148
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07-29-2009, 10:06 AM	#150
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