Are you married and think both of you can be 100% exclusive - GoFuckYourself.com

Joe King · 08-05-2009, 01:23 AM

Lets face it, everyone of us knows people who cheat. Some people don't even try to hide it from their friends

I am with someone who is talking about a "lifetime" together. It makes me wonder if it is realistic for two people to actually be exclusive with each other for several decades.

Is it best to just have an open relationship? I am against it but not sure if I am just a romantic who thinks people can be in love and also be hot for each other for the rest of their lives.

So anyone been married for a long time? What is your experience?

JimmiDean · 08-05-2009, 03:23 AM

Fourteen years and dont regret a day of it.

Barefootsies · 08-05-2009, 03:27 AM

Not a chance.

I do not believe in marriage either.

seeandsee · 08-05-2009, 03:57 AM

why not, not you really need ot get in love whit some one that will get in love with you, that is hard part

BlackCrayon · 08-05-2009, 04:19 AM

i believe its possible but temptation is a bitch.

Boogie3 · 08-05-2009, 04:25 AM

13 years here. My wife is my angel. HOWEVER!!!! Nuff said

CDSmith · 08-05-2009, 04:26 AM

Sure, as you said everyone knows people who cheat. I've known tons who've cheated on their significant others.

But I also know and have known several couples who have never cheated and remain 100% commited.

So I know it's possible.

Dirty Lord · 08-05-2009, 04:41 AM

i'm not married, yey

Fletch XXX · 08-05-2009, 06:08 AM

Why people post these threads on gfy is beyond me. Its like talking about god on a satanists forum. fact is most people are too unhappy in their own life to have a happy existence with another.

Paul Markham · 08-05-2009, 06:21 AM

Are you being unfaithful if your wife is there as well?

Sid70 · 08-05-2009, 06:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fletch XXX

Why people post these threads on gfy is beyond me. Its like talking about god on a satanists forum. fact is most people are too unhappy in their own life to have a happy existence with another.

for some time i thought you were a .. okay, now i can tell, i second that.

David! · 08-05-2009, 06:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Paul Markham

Are you being unfaithful if your wife is there as well?

That's the way to do it, a couple should share delicacies together

gornyhuy · 08-05-2009, 06:32 AM

Its definitely very do-able, but it takes interest and effort from BOTH people, through some pretty tough conditions.

rayadp05 · 08-05-2009, 06:59 AM

I have been very happily married for 14 years now but I do have sexual encounters with other women. My wife is very aware of what I do as an adult webmaster (as well as an adult video performer) but she sure doesn't seem to mind the weekly paychecks that arriive in our mailbox as a result of me participating in the activities that I am involved in...but I am sure that she would rather me not do it.

However, the adult industry is my life (as well as who I am as an individual) so I will never stop working in the industry.

As far as your particular situation, how do you feel about the person? I definately feel that it is possible for two individuals to be together without ever cheating on one another. Depends on various factors though.

Have you ever spoken with her regarding the situation? May be a good time to sit down and discuss everything before getting too involved.

tranza · 08-05-2009, 09:30 AM

I think it is possible...

MetaMan · 08-05-2009, 09:34 AM

I have never cheated and i never will. I get off on the fact of being in a relationship that is not open.

something about you are the only person who gets me and im the only one who gets you that gets me off.

gornyhuy · 08-05-2009, 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan

I have never cheated and i never will. I get off on the fact of being in a relationship that is not open.

something about you are the only person who gets me and im the only one who gets you that gets me off.

He must make you very happy. I hope he is gentle with your asshole.

MetaMan · 08-05-2009, 09:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gornyhuy

He must make you very happy. I hope he is gentle with your asshole.

never had a cock in there but i dont mind a good finger or tongue up the wazoo.

Boobgirl · 08-05-2009, 10:56 AM

Hubby and I are celebrating our 14th Anniversary today. Still going strong together!

beerptrol · 08-05-2009, 11:10 AM

I have an open relationship with my right hand.

cherrylula · 08-05-2009, 01:21 PM

If you don't think so then why get married?

08-05-2009, 01:23 AM	#1
Joe King Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: In the City of Wonder Posts: 613	Are you married and think both of you can be 100% exclusive Lets face it, everyone of us knows people who cheat. Some people don't even try to hide it from their friends I am with someone who is talking about a "lifetime" together. It makes me wonder if it is realistic for two people to actually be exclusive with each other for several decades. Is it best to just have an open relationship? I am against it but not sure if I am just a romantic who thinks people can be in love and also be hot for each other for the rest of their lives. So anyone been married for a long time? What is your experience?

08-05-2009, 03:23 AM	#2
JimmiDean Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Margarittaville Posts: 3,433	Fourteen years and dont regret a day of it. __________________ My God there's Porn on here! Still on the Beach !!!

08-05-2009, 03:27 AM	#3
Barefootsies Choice is an Illusion Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Land of Obama Posts: 42,635	Not a chance. I do not believe in marriage either. __________________ Should You Email Your Members? Link1 \| Link2 \| Link3 Enough Said. "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

08-05-2009, 03:57 AM	#4
seeandsee Check SIG! Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Europe (Skype: gojkoas) Posts: 50,945	why not, not you really need ot get in love whit some one that will get in love with you, that is hard part __________________ BUY MY SIG - 50$/Year Contact here

08-05-2009, 04:19 AM	#5
BlackCrayon Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Ottawa Posts: 19,631	i believe its possible but temptation is a bitch. __________________ you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..

08-05-2009, 04:25 AM	#6
Boogie3 Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Looking at boobs Posts: 815	13 years here. My wife is my angel. HOWEVER!!!! Nuff said __________________ How ya like my sig?

08-05-2009, 04:26 AM	#7
CDSmith Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: My network is hosted at TECHIEMEDIA.net ...Wait, you meant where am I located at? Oh... okay, I'm in Winnipeg, Canada. Oops. :) Posts: 51,460	Sure, as you said everyone knows people who cheat. I've known tons who've cheated on their significant others. But I also know and have known several couples who have never cheated and remain 100% commited. So I know it's possible. __________________ *Promote Wildmatch, ImLive, Sexier.com, and more!!* ALWAYS THE HIGHEST PAYOUTS: Big Bux/ImLive SIGNUP ON NOW!!! Put some PUSSYCA$H in your pocket. ICQ me at: 31024634

08-05-2009, 04:41 AM	#8
Dirty Lord Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,681	i'm not married, yey __________________

08-05-2009, 06:08 AM	#9
Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	Why people post these threads on gfy is beyond me. Its like talking about god on a satanists forum. fact is most people are too unhappy in their own life to have a happy existence with another. __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me Last edited by Fletch XXX; 08-05-2009 at 06:09 AM..

08-05-2009, 06:21 AM	#10
Paul Markham Too old to care Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: On the sofa, watching TV or doing my jigsaws. Posts: 52,943	Are you being unfaithful if your wife is there as well? __________________ Blowout deal. 880 videos, 2,400 image sets, plus many RAW videos. $500. PM me for a deal. Skype Paulmarkham70

08-05-2009, 06:32 AM	#13
gornyhuy Chafed. Join Date: May 2002 Location: Face Down in Pussy Posts: 18,041	Its definitely very do-able, but it takes interest and effort from BOTH people, through some pretty tough conditions. __________________ icq:159548293

08-05-2009, 06:59 AM	#14
rayadp05 TRUEAMATEURMODELS.COM Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: TrueAmateurModels.com Posts: 4,187	I have been very happily married for 14 years now but I do have sexual encounters with other women. My wife is very aware of what I do as an adult webmaster (as well as an adult video performer) but she sure doesn't seem to mind the weekly paychecks that arriive in our mailbox as a result of me participating in the activities that I am involved in...but I am sure that she would rather me not do it. However, the adult industry is my life (as well as who I am as an individual) so I will never stop working in the industry. As far as your particular situation, how do you feel about the person? I definately feel that it is possible for two individuals to be together without ever cheating on one another. Depends on various factors though. Have you ever spoken with her regarding the situation? May be a good time to sit down and discuss everything before getting too involved. __________________ TrueAmateurModels.com Twitter TrueAmateurModels.com Affiliate Program

08-05-2009, 09:30 AM	#15
tranza ICQ: 197-556-237 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: BRASIL !!! Posts: 57,559	I think it is possible... __________________ I'm just a newbie.

08-05-2009, 09:34 AM	#16
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	I have never cheated and i never will. I get off on the fact of being in a relationship that is not open. something about you are the only person who gets me and im the only one who gets you that gets me off.

08-05-2009, 10:56 AM	#19
Boobgirl Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 444	Hubby and I are celebrating our 14th Anniversary today. Still going strong together! __________________ Dawn Allison www.dawnsplace.com www.dpdollars.com

08-05-2009, 11:10 AM	#20
beerptrol Confirmed Asshole Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Half way between sobriety and fubar. Posts: 12,722	I have an open relationship with my right hand. __________________ “If we are to have another contest in the near future of our national existence, I predict that the dividing line will not be Mason and Dixon's but between patriotism and intelligence on the one side, and superstition, ambition and ignorance on the other.” -- Ulysses S. Grant

08-05-2009, 01:21 PM	#21
cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969	If you don't think so then why get married?