10 year old son comes home with hickeys on his neck... - GoFuckYourself.com

StinkyPink · 09-18-2009, 02:38 AM

...from another 10 year old boy.

How am I supposed to cope with that?

I told him to never take candy (or cock) from strangers, and to only look both ways while crossing the street.

This happened a couple weekends ago, he was at his mothers for the weekend and the night before she sends him home, he has a sleepover with a friend. He said they were talking about girls and wanted to makeout to see what it felt like.

IMO it probably felt a little different than it would have with a girl.

Although I have gone through that stage of experimental sex both at 6 and 11 and again at 30. *cough*

What would you do?

The Duck · 09-18-2009, 02:46 AM

StinkyPink · 09-18-2009, 02:48 AM

Exactly...

The Duck · 09-18-2009, 02:49 AM

I have no good advise to give but I dont think you have to read too much into the situation at all.

okny · 09-18-2009, 02:51 AM

10 years old hickey from another by go get the belt.

blazin · 09-18-2009, 02:56 AM

Sorry to hear your son is a gay...

pentae · 09-18-2009, 03:58 AM

You should sit down and explain to your son, like any good father, that being gay is socially unacceptable, and if he continues that kind of behaviour you wont be mad, you'll just be really disappointed.

John-ACWM · 09-18-2009, 04:36 AM

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Originally Posted by The Duck

Spunky · 09-18-2009, 05:25 AM

They start earlier these days

FrozenJag · 09-18-2009, 05:33 AM

Tell him he better cut it out or when he is 25 and engaged to his dream girl you'll start telling stories of him being a little 10 yr gay perv. :D

Sorry to hear about this though man. Being a father must be hella tough.

L-Pink · 09-18-2009, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by The Duck

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qxm · 09-18-2009, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by The Duck

that was my reaction when I read the first line.....

L-Pink · 09-18-2009, 05:43 AM

StinkyPink · 09-18-2009, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

They start earlier these days

That they do...

SplitPalms · 09-18-2009, 07:48 AM

You should add a Paypal Donation button to this thread.

I don't have any kids, but you have my sympathy.

Fletch XXX · 09-18-2009, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by StinkyPink

IMO it probably felt a little different than it would have with a girl.

maybe it will become what he prefers

nothing wrong with a little boy on boy love

StinkyPink · 09-18-2009, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by FrozenJag

Tell him he better cut it out or when he is 25 and engaged to his dream girl you'll start telling stories of him being a little 10 yr gay perv. :D

Sorry to hear about this though man. Being a father must be hella tough.

Yeah, it is fun, not bad, but when situations like this come up it's like wtf.

xxweekxx · 09-18-2009, 07:52 AM

nothing wrong if your son loves to take cock up the butt..

at least he doesnt want a gender change.. yet..

Riffhard · 09-18-2009, 08:02 AM

If it makes you feel any better, when I was 9 my friend and I had a little fencing match after going swimming.

And I still grew up to be socially normal and in love with women. I think at that age it's not so much sexual or physical attraction, but rather just curiosity and exploration, and maybe some impulse driven actions. I mean I made out with a girl when I was 11 and I hated it...

quantum-x · 09-18-2009, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Riffhard

If it makes you feel any better, when I was 9 my friend and I had a little fencing match after going swimming.

And I still grew up to be socially normal and in love with women. I think at that age it's not so much sexual or physical attraction, but rather just curiosity and exploration, and maybe some impulse driven actions. I mean I made out with a girl when I was 11 and I hated it...

I predict you'll regret this post.

SmokeyTheBear · 09-18-2009, 08:08 AM

Time for a big talk..

You have 2 choices.. accept he is gay now , or go rent a shitload of porn movies for him to wach..

In movies and tv you often see scenes of gay "curiosity" among teen boys. Maybe i was thankfully unaware of such stuff growing up , but i never saw or heard anything like this among my friends, the only ones that did anything remotely similar , turned out to be gay.

CaptainHowdy · 09-18-2009, 08:11 AM

Send him to Sunday school ...

StinkyPink · 09-18-2009, 08:20 AM

Haha... some of your replies are humorous.

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

Send him to Sunday school ...

He already attends, and thank god it's not catholic.

halfpint · 09-18-2009, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by The Duck

Talk to your son dont just leave it be

dready · 09-18-2009, 08:54 AM

At that age, let it go for now.

Loch · 09-18-2009, 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StinkyPink

...from another 10 year old boy.

How am I supposed to cope with that?

I told him to never take candy (or cock) from strangers, and to only look both ways while crossing the street.

This happened a couple weekends ago, he was at his mothers for the weekend and the night before she sends him home, he has a sleepover with a friend. He said they were talking about girls and wanted to makeout to see what it felt like.

IMO it probably felt a little different than it would have with a girl.

Although I have gone through that stage of experimental sex both at 6 and 11 and again at 30. *cough*

What would you do?

Your pink writing any indication?

L-Pink · 09-18-2009, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by quantum-x

I predict you'll regret this post.

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TrafficRush · 09-18-2009, 09:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FrozenJag

Tell him he better cut it out or when he is 25 and engaged to his dream girl you'll start telling stories of him being a little 10 yr gay perv. :D

Sorry to hear about this though man. Being a father must be hella tough.

yes this will stick the point out LOL...

Tom_PM · 09-18-2009, 09:27 AM

In all my years I've never heard even third-hand like on a message board, anything remotely similar to this. I would have punched the shit out of any of my childhood friends if they'd gotten within punching distance of me, and vice versa. Just saying.

who · 09-18-2009, 10:54 AM

Maybe you should stop dressing like a tramp.

Agent 488 · 09-18-2009, 10:59 AM

he has too much time on his hands. keep him busy. maybe get him interested in music. start out with an elton john box set.

Furious_Male · 09-18-2009, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by dready

At that age, let it go for now.

Yea I don't think I would make a big deal out of it as it might confuse him. I might explain that its inappropriate for him to be doing things like this at a sleep over regardless of the gender and leave it at that for now.

iTouch! · 09-18-2009, 11:14 AM

gay at ten damn ... i wonder why he's gay look at you.

BlackCrayon · 09-18-2009, 11:17 AM

i can't imagine letting one of my friend suck on my neck at 11, or any age really. good god. could just be an innocent incident. could of been something more, who knows. nothing much you can do if he is gay or not anyhow. kids these days are having sex at 12.

beerptrol · 09-18-2009, 11:30 AM

I wouldn't make a big deal out of it at this age
If it was my son I'd sit him down and tell him he shouldn't be coming home with hickies at the age of 10, and ask him what happened. I'd then ask how did he feel when the boy was giving him hickies. Then I'd ask him how he would feel if it was a girl who had given him the hickies. Kinda get a feel of which team he wants to play for. But I'd make it clear he shouldn't be coming home with hickies. I would then tell him "I'm always here for you if you want to talk about anything, and no matter what, your dad is here for you and will always love you"

tranza · 09-18-2009, 11:36 AM

/facepalm *detected*

MetaMan · 09-18-2009, 11:39 AM

your son is gay.... CONGRATS!

ProG · 09-18-2009, 11:45 AM

Your only hope at this point is to make sure he becomes a top and not a bottom.

_Richard_ · 09-18-2009, 11:49 AM

i'd layout the ground rules again for that sort of thing and forget about it

they could have done it with a vacuum for all you know

RyuLion · 09-18-2009, 11:50 AM

I don't have kids so I donno what to say..and hearing stuff like this makes me don't want to ever have some..

BradM · 09-18-2009, 11:54 AM

Uh.... do nothing. He's gay. There's nothing to DO.

art914 · 09-18-2009, 03:25 PM

man...i feel sorry for you

After Shock Media · 09-18-2009, 03:44 PM

Some of the reactions in here are just straight up fucked up and make me almost wish they get stuck with gay children latter in life, yet can not make me wish that as it would also harm a kid.

The kid either was experimenting because he is starting to get some hormones flowing or there is the chance that he has a preference for guys. Since you said they were talking about girls and wanted to see what it felt like, I would not even start to think he is gay yet.

Yes I am of the camp that think people are born a given way. I also think since he has interest in girls, this was just a curiosity thing.

MandyBlake · 09-18-2009, 03:46 PM

wow this is just one of the many reasons i don't have children.

imabro · 09-18-2009, 03:50 PM

the other tony404 cock will not reach

baddog · 09-18-2009, 03:52 PM

qxm · 09-18-2009, 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Loch

Your pink writing any indication?

+1

Deej · 09-18-2009, 03:54 PM

NO no noooo... this is not good at all....

brassmonkey · 09-18-2009, 03:54 PM

gay or not hes your son fuck all that laughter shit you need to contact the parents of the other kid

Glenn Beck · 09-18-2009, 03:55 PM

Sounds like your son has fallen victim to homosexuality. I suggest getting him into the Mormon church as soon as possible.

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