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Old 01-15-2010, 11:59 PM   #51
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If she's going to be flashing her titties for beads and you're not there....well, that's just a bit fucked up, imo.
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Old 01-16-2010, 12:02 AM   #52
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honestly, people do things due to alcohol..

on a trip to costa rica, a little small beach town.... so i went to the local club, was dancing all night with this chic.. shes ok, maybe a 7/10.. she doesnt know how to dance so im basically having fun, teaching her how to do moves, shes drinking, and we are basically fucking on the dancefloor..

anyway later on we go outside to talk, she kisses me, and is basically trying to fuck me but her friend was cockblocking me...

later on this girl starts crying hysterically and reveals to me that shes been married for 8yrs(shes like 27), got married at 19.. never EVER cheated, a good girl..

but her goofball bf left her at the club and went to the beach to hang out with his friends, so there I was, basically so close to fucking his wife, just because he left her alone...

anyway after that day, i lost all trust i had for girls..

if you have a gf who is a perfectly good girl, and she somehow goes clubbing in a beach town, and some guy is dancing with her, having fun, joking, teaching her moves, and sweet talking to her, im pretty sure she'll cheat.....

sometimes all you need is right situation.. i got kissed and almost fucked a married woman(only thing stopping her was her friend kept dragging her away from me and crap)
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Old 01-16-2010, 12:15 AM   #53
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So when does cheating become cheating? Is it when she sees a guys penis (by accident of course), or is it when she flashes her tits, or is it when some guy grabs her ass, or is it when she kisses someone else, or is it when she parties with a group of guys and has sex in the hotel room?

Give an inch, take a mile... why not, your not around... and what you don't know won't hurt ya
Generally speaking, this is a good rule of thumb to live by.

If your woman looks at another guy, she's cheating on you.

If you fuck another woman in the same bed you share with your woman, you're cheating on her. (That's why I sleep on the couch)
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she did invite me, i can't go cause of work and plus i've been to new orleans and hate it there
her intentions may be good. she might be "just friends" with those guys, you never know for sure if there is any history or feelings with her towards on of them or one of them towards her.

The good news with her being the only girl is the guys would probably protect her and keep the other dudes away....

however, if she is ever going to cheat on you, it would be on that trip. She will be drunk, with millions of other drunk people, 99.9% of the guys there are looking to get laid, even the guys she will be with. Guys will be grabbing on her, trying to get her to show her tits, buying her drinks, grinding against her in the street etc... Then she goes back to a hotel room after all of that and shares a bed with a bunch of "drunk" guy friends who are all horned up looking at tits all night. If just one of those guys has a thing for her, and maybe she was always attracted to him but nothing ever happened... they both drunk, etc... you know what is going to happen. It just takes a little alcohol and opps... did we do that last night...

If you can really trust her to be honest with you and she doesn't cheat, then marry that girl.

I would say better than 50% chance she will at least kiss, fool around or worse. And a 90% if she fooled around but didn't have sex she wont tell you about it.

Have fun thinking about what she is doing 24/7 while she is gone. The party really is 24/7 non stop. Do yourself a favor, get off of work and go. Have a good time and don't beat yourself up worry while she is gone.... which you should be worrying.

I grew up in new orleans, went to mardi gras / french quarter every year from 16-24... trust me. either go or worry your ass off that you have an angel of a girl friend.
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Old 01-16-2010, 02:51 AM   #55
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her intentions may be good. she might be "just friends" with those guys, you never know for sure if there is any history or feelings with her towards on of them or one of them towards her.

The good news with her being the only girl is the guys would probably protect her and keep the other dudes away....

however, if she is ever going to cheat on you, it would be on that trip. She will be drunk, with millions of other drunk people, 99.9% of the guys there are looking to get laid, even the guys she will be with. Guys will be grabbing on her, trying to get her to show her tits, buying her drinks, grinding against her in the street etc... Then she goes back to a hotel room after all of that and shares a bed with a bunch of "drunk" guy friends who are all horned up looking at tits all night. If just one of those guys has a thing for her, and maybe she was always attracted to him but nothing ever happened... they both drunk, etc... you know what is going to happen. It just takes a little alcohol and opps... did we do that last night...

If you can really trust her to be honest with you and she doesn't cheat, then marry that girl.

I would say better than 50% chance she will at least kiss, fool around or worse. And a 90% if she fooled around but didn't have sex she wont tell you about it.

Have fun thinking about what she is doing 24/7 while she is gone. The party really is 24/7 none stop. Do yourself a favor, get off of work and go. Have a good time and don't beat yourself up worry while she is gone.... which you should be worrying.

I grew up in new orleans, went to mardi gras / french quarter every year from 16-24... trust me. either go or worry your ass off that you have an angel of a girl friend.
I think this post pretty much sums it up
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But nothing you've said here counters my post ... I said that you're all judging her by the shit you've heard or seen in the past. Which doesn't work. It's broken logic. It's statistics. Just because XX% of people do this or that, doesn't mean that everyone does it. She may go, have a great, safe time, and come back fine. Without having slept with anyone or been a total cunt to her boyfriend.
have you been to mardi gras? just curious. The atmosphere, the drinking etc... If she had a 1% chance to cheat it would likely happen then.

It's bad enough in this day in age when more than half people go LOOKING to cheat in their every day lives. Whether it is a co-worker or they meet some out at their local bar, or they go online looking to cheat.

She could be a great girl who would never do the things i mentioned above, but put in the wrong place at the wrong time, with more tempation then she has ever had to cheat, with her judgement impaired, hell she could be 1/2 way conscious, and have some hot dude come on to her, a million miles from home, with her pussy dripping wet from all the attention she got all night flashing her boobs stuff she has never done before all her inhabitions coming out, knowing he would never find out about it and she wouldn't get caught.... come on. she wouldn't be looking for it but she would opps, slip and her tounge would land in some guys mouth and then she would likely roll with it.

Most people cheat. The ones that don't, most of them don't because they have never been pushed to the brink of tempation. VERY VERY few have had pussy fall into their lap, out of town, drunk, and turned it down out of morals and principles. And most of the non cheaters wont know if they will continue to be non cheaters until they are put into that position.
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Tell her you WERE able to get off work and want to go with her. If she gets excited, she's good to go alone. If she's at all reticent, be wary.
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Her "intentions" going are most likely good. She should be happy if he is going. But that's not the problem, its the reality of what will happen will she is there that she doesn't realize and how well she will hold up to the temptions.

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sounds like you are the one stuck in 1955. How can you feel uncomfortable knowing some people don't trust their partners when the vast majority of partners (one or both) have cheated. It's a fact. More have cheated than have not. There is good reason for most people to have at least a little trust issue with the other person. Maybe not to the point where they need to bug the phone, and have a PI follow them around, but to not trust your spouse in a very tempting situation is normal considering MOST people cheat for a lot less reasons.
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Old 01-16-2010, 03:35 AM   #58
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Her tits are gonna be all over the net... I'd have problems with it
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i disagree... many a good relationship were ruined on bourbon street after a few hand grenades and hurricanes...

if you really like this girl and this might be the one... go with her...

if you've never been to mardi gras then you wouldnt understand...
My thoughts exactly! I live by the rule 'Shit Happens' does not matter how faithful you are... hey 'Shit Happens'
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Yes let her go.

But phone an escort for yourself while she's away...
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Bottom line is that

if she cared about your feelings she wouldn't go to Mardis Gras with a group of guys when you can't go. She would wait till next year and go with you.

This whole "don't you trust me?" vibe they put off is just an evil way of throwing it back in your face and making you feel guilty, when the fact of the matter is a caring partner would not go on such a trip in the first place.
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Bottom line is that

if she cared about your feelings she wouldn't go to Mardis Gras with a group of guys when you can't go. She would wait till next year and go with you.

This whole "don't you trust me?" vibe they put off is just an evil way of throwing it back in your face and making you feel guilty, when the fact of the matter is a caring partner would not go on such a trip in the first place.
Thank you for saving me the time. That post is perfect! No way would any woman I ever date even think of going ANYWHERE with a group of guys let alone drunk off her ass and sleeping in the same room. (of course they will end up in the same room even if they swear they have separate rooms)

And I don't give a fuck if this is 1950 or 2010 guys cannot be "just friends" with girls. Yes there are very rare exceptions to this rule but for the most part YOUR GIRLFRIENDS "FRIENDS" WANT TO PUT THEIR PENISES INTO HER VAGINA.

I bet your GF still keeps in contact with many of her ex boyfriends and booty calls. Am I right?
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Can you show us a picture of her? I'm heading down and looking for a sure thing.
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Just remember, "women" test you with this kind of crap all the time.
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i would love to hear a womans perspective on this. So women on gfy, speak your mind and dont lie.... be honest. What would you do and what do you expect other females to do who are in this situation? Im taking the chance of visiting my backpacking gf in a few months after alot of thought, from 'fuck this im not going shes fucking other people' to 'well maybe i can trust her' so i have a personal interest in this aswell. Now im at the stage 'I think i can trust her but dont know, but i need to get out of my daily boring life and a pussy is waiting for me there so why not.' And ill see how it goes from there.
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i would love to hear a womans perspective on this. So women on gfy, speak your mind and dont lie.... be honest. What would you do and what do you expect other females to do who are in this situation? Im taking the chance of visiting my backpacking gf in a few months after alot of thought, from 'fuck this im not going shes fucking other people' to 'well maybe i can trust her' so i have a personal interest in this aswell. Now im at the stage 'I think i can trust her but dont know, but i need to get out of my daily boring life and a pussy is waiting for me there so why not.' And ill see how it goes from there.
I have done tons of backpacking around Europe and the Middle East and rarely do people even mention whether or not they have a BF or GF at home. I have hooked up with over a dozen of girls on my trips and the issue never even came up.

Now back to the original poster..... If this girl might be "the one" for you then get on CL and find some local New Orleans dude to follow their group around with a video camera. I bet you she will do something that is cheating such as kissing someone or letting them feel her boobs. Without even knowing your GF I would bet money on it. Sorry but she has already disrespected you by even considering going to Mardi Gras with a group of guy "friends" so why would she not disrespect you further once she gets there?
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Oh shit, you are in Miami right? Dump this girl and find a nice Brazilian girl. They don't put their men through this type of shit
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I would be really nice to her and when it comes up again say baby you can do whatever you want cause I trust you and know you would never do anything to risk our relationship, when she is gone bang as many whores as you can then when shit comes out later or she can't look you straight in the eye what do you care you waxed half of the chicks in town, I think trust is good but honestly mardi gras and a group of dudes would scare me, get time off from work and go with or just super glue 3 holes shut before she goes. http://redtube.com/6142

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LOL! This is getting funnier by the moment ... You see those Girls Gone Wild videos? For every Girl Gone Wild, there's a fucking thousand girls who DIDN'T go wild for the camera. It's because not all girls are the same. How fucking insulting is it to all the faithful committed women here on GFY that most people in this thread are branding them unfaithful because they're tarnishing them with the same brush. Pretty bad if you ask me. And pretty terrible that every guy here who has this view that ever gets into a relationship will be insecure, and probably demean and put down and try and control his future girlfriend. I pity her when she gets with you! lol.
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I would be really nice to her and when it comes up again say baby you can do whatever you want cause I trust you and know you would never do anything to risk our relationship, when she is gone bang as many whores as you can then when shit comes out later or she can't look you straight in the eye what do you care you waxed half of the chicks in town, I think trust is good but honestly mardi gras and a group of dudes would scare me, get time off from work and go with or just super glue 3 holes shut before she goes. http://redtube.com/6142
Why would you post a set up video? Dude ... ALL those videos are bullshit :P
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Why would you post a set up video? Dude ... ALL those videos are bullshit :P
those 2 were just friends I get what you're saying about trust I just think your percentages of good/bad girls are off these days from past experience, so I would say 50/50 is the best case scenario and saying 1,000 to 1 say no when were talking mardi gras and alcohol is being naive, 1955 called and they want their stats back.
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those 2 were just friends I get what you're saying about trust I just think your percentages of good/bad girls are off these days from past experience, so I would say 50/50 is the best case scenario and saying 1,000 to 1 say no when were talking mardi gras and alcohol is being naive, 1955 called and they want their stats back.
I think you'll find my point was more important than the figures ... which neither you or I can really use since neither of us knows the true facts

And I don't know if those facts were from 1955 either! :D heheh
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Is she a serious gf? If your afraid something is going to happen to her I wouldn't let her go. Especially with a bunch of dudes. If she passes out you can bet your ass one of them is gonna be on that.

On the other hand she is going to think your insecure and controlling for not letting her go which isn't a good. It's a shitty situation. The fact she wants to still go without you though is kind of odd.

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so here's the deal...my gf wants to go to mardi gras this year, next month. i say no way, she says she has every right to experience it. i have no reason not to trust her, but i think that environment is a recipe for disaster. am i being over zealous? we've been together for quite a long while...as i said she's been good to me so far, so forget it and swallow my pride?
She is your girlfriend not your slave. You have zero say in the matter. If you don't trust her, dump her.

Personally, I am of the opinion that if you do not trust her then it is you that has the problem remaining faithful, not her.
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i just would hate to see something happen to her and i can't get to her/help her from miami
Weak. Fact = you want to be in control.

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This trip sounds like it would be similar to sending a guy like me to Vegas and expecting me not to call up one of those $69 strippers from the pamphlets the mexicans advertise on the street corners.
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shit happens under the influence of alcohol and in the right environment..
Drunks don't lie. In other words, don't blame the alcohol for them doing what they would do sober if they thought they could get away with it.
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haha if i wanted control i would be dating someone else that i could be owning right now.
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Old 01-16-2010, 01:59 PM   #82
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If she is/was going to cheat on you while she's away in New Orleans for Mardi Gras - she's already cheated on you - you just don't know it yet.

Either you trust her or you don't. All the other stuff is bullshit. If you trust her, give her a kiss and tell her to have fun and leave it at that. If you don't - drop her and move on.
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Old 01-16-2010, 02:51 PM   #83
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I think she should go fuck herself.
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Old 01-16-2010, 02:55 PM   #84
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haha if i wanted control i would be dating someone else that i could be owning right now.
Then don't sweat it. If she needed help in any way there are a lot more qualified services there than you could ever provide.

Simple question, how old are each of you?
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Old 01-16-2010, 03:09 PM   #85
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Take it from someone with A LOT of experience on this subject.

GET A NEW GIRLFRIEND ASAP!

(Unless you are not serious about her.)
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Old 01-16-2010, 03:12 PM   #86
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let her? what are you a slave owner or something. she can do whatever she wants.
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Old 01-16-2010, 05:46 PM   #87
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Bad Dog is speakin' some damn good sense.
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Old 01-16-2010, 06:33 PM   #88
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She is your girlfriend not your slave. You have zero say in the matter. If you don't trust her, dump her.

Personally, I am of the opinion that if you do not trust her then it is you that has the problem remaining faithful, not her.
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Old 01-16-2010, 07:00 PM   #89
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Be the man you want to be. The name for this man that lets his woman go is a "Cabron".
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Old 01-16-2010, 07:06 PM   #90
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create a fake account om facebook and try and pick her up. see what her response is.
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Old 01-16-2010, 07:49 PM   #91
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You absolutely should let her go. If you cant trust her to go party it up then how are you going to trust her for the rest of your life? Would you be happy if you wanted to go and she said no your not going? Dont be an over protective prick or she prob will fuck around on you!
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Old 01-16-2010, 09:28 PM   #92
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Bottom line is that

if she cared about your feelings she wouldn't go to Mardis Gras with a group of guys when you can't go. She would wait till next year and go with you.

This whole "don't you trust me?" vibe they put off is just an evil way of throwing it back in your face and making you feel guilty, when the fact of the matter is a caring partner would not go on such a trip in the first place.


Someone that loved and respected you would not even want to go somewhere like this without you. Simple as that.
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Old 01-16-2010, 09:54 PM   #93
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JFK would would no more try telling me what I could and could not do any more than I would try telling him
your relationship with your girlfriend is whatever the two of you make it and no-one elses opinion of it and how you conduct yourselves should matter
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I will give you further explanation because many of the men here are not brought up correctly. A women is not allowed to go to places like this without her love or male family member. A man that allows this to happen is called a "Cabron". Word gets around and men will not allow you to date or marry their daughters. Men need to step up and take care of the women in their lives so they keep their quality and morals.
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Old 01-16-2010, 11:42 PM   #95
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My GF wouldn't even dare ask if she could go because if she even asked her shit would be packed up and on the front steps.

If she asked you to go and you cant go she should NOT be going. You need to put a tighter leash on her or drop her.
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Old 01-17-2010, 12:02 AM   #96
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You guys are a bunch of pussies if you can't even trust your girlfriends. Seriously.
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Old 01-17-2010, 12:30 AM   #97
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Flip side, would she trust you going to Mardi Gras without her? If so then let her go.
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Old 01-17-2010, 02:12 AM   #98
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Don't sweat it. Just fit her with one of these before she goes.



Admittedly, it ain't a perfect solution but it at least it covers 2 out of 3 holes
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You guys are a bunch of pussies if you can't even trust your girlfriends. Seriously.
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go with her, problem solved
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