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xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 05:53 PM

truth is ive spent so much money on family.. if i had to put an estimate its at least 100k in the past 3-4yrs.. i remember this cousin who was like a bro to me, he kept borrowing $1k from me like every week , he would come up with reasons and id feel bad and loan him the money.. mofo owes me at least $50k now.. i wrote all that off..

as for money ive been careful with it.. i dont splurge on expensive crap like watches, etc.. ive been saving like a mad man, but then i dont know why i made a rookie mistake of giving this girl money.. u r right she prolly knows im too nice to her to even ask her for it back, so im gonna change all that and ask for my money back.. fuck the friendship i know way too many girls here its cool if i lose one..

$10k is a lot of money to just write off.. ive written off tons of $500-1,000 loans, but never $10k.. fuck that..

my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them

mozadek · 05-27-2010, 06:10 PM

Man, this guy is acting like a little bitch.

Sly · 05-27-2010, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them

By asking yourself this question: what would they do if I wasn't around?

The answer: survive.

Don't use their shitty situation as a way to make yourself feel good. They don't need you. You are simply an easy target.

I could be your life coach for a small fee. Let me know. ;-)

mightyjoe · 05-27-2010, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham

Then you should not of loaned it to her. Never lend money to friends is my motto. The banks are there to do that.

its always the hardest thing so say "no" to a close friend.

gabe100 · 05-27-2010, 06:17 PM

the garbage I'll read while waiting for a video to render... You sound like an absolute idiot.

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

By asking yourself this question: what would they do if I wasn't around?

The answer: survive.

Don't use their shitty situation as a way to make yourself feel good. They don't need you. You are simply an easy target.

I could be your life coach for a small fee. Let me know. ;-)

yeah bro my mentality is shit i make more than he/she does in a month in maybe one or two days.. i can help them out.. but u are right no need using it to make myself feel good. and yeah i do need a life coach..

how much do u charge.lol

Marcus Aurelius · 05-27-2010, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

truth is ive spent so much money on family.. if i had to put an estimate its at least 100k in the past 3-4yrs.. i remember this cousin who was like a bro to me, he kept borrowing $1k from me like every week , he would come up with reasons and id feel bad and loan him the money.. mofo owes me at least $50k now.. i wrote all that off..

as for money ive been careful with it.. i dont splurge on expensive crap like watches, etc.. ive been saving like a mad man, but then i dont know why i made a rookie mistake of giving this girl money.. u r right she prolly knows im too nice to her to even ask her for it back, so im gonna change all that and ask for my money back.. fuck the friendship i know way too many girls here its cool if i lose one..

$10k is a lot of money to just write off.. ive written off tons of $500-1,000 loans, but never $10k.. fuck that..

my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them

well, fuck

dont go around flaunting that you have money.
play it down and if someone asks tell em you dont have anything to spare because you need to fund your business etc.

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by gabe100

the garbage I'll read while waiting for a video to render... You sound like an absolute idiot.

i know im an idiot for doing this, no need to reiterate this

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

well, fuck

dont go around flaunting that you have money.
play it down and if someone asks tell em you dont have anything to spare because you need to fund your business etc.

yeah but remember this is someone i trusted and they said theyll have it back to me in a week tops.. now the issue is how the i get my money back.. at this point the $10k is more important than our friendship so fuck it..

Dvae · 05-27-2010, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them

Instead of loaning it tell them you are giving it to them. Only give a fraction of what they ask for. Say its not a loan as you know they won't pay it back so if they ask for $1000 'give' them 50 or 100. $10000 give them $100.
It will save you a ton of money.

As to the current situation the 'red flag' was that her dad would not loan her money then theres probably a good reason.
It would be interesting to know what is reason is.

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Dvae

Instead of loaning it tell them you are giving it to them. Only give a fraction of what they ask for. Say its not a loan as you know they won't pay it back so if they ask for $1000 'give' them 50 or 100. $10000 give them $100.
It will save you a ton of money.

As to the current situation the 'red flag' was that her dad would not loan her money then theres probably a good reason.
It would be interesting to know what is reason is.

too late for that eh?

Dvae · 05-27-2010, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

too late for that eh?

I'm saying for the future.

Did you by any chance get an IOU from your friend?

Second question. Any idea what she actually did with the money?

LiveDose · 05-27-2010, 07:03 PM

If she's hot tell her to work it off in the bedroom...

Jim_Gunn · 05-27-2010, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

truth is ive spent so much money on family.. if i had to put an estimate its at least 100k in the past 3-4yrs.. i remember this cousin who was like a bro to me, he kept borrowing $1k from me like every week , he would come up with reasons and id feel bad and loan him the money.. mofo owes me at least $50k now.. i wrote all that off..

as for money ive been careful with it.. i dont splurge on expensive crap like watches, etc.. ive been saving like a mad man, but then i dont know why i made a rookie mistake of giving this girl money.. u r right she prolly knows im too nice to her to even ask her for it back, so im gonna change all that and ask for my money back.. fuck the friendship i know way too many girls here its cool if i lose one..

$10k is a lot of money to just write off.. ive written off tons of $500-1,000 loans, but never $10k.. fuck that..

my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them

This is insane. Your family & friends are making a fool out of you. You're a 24 year old young guy and I have no idea how you are making so much money in adult or mainstream that you can afford to piss it away like this. But you are obviously telling everyone you know way too much of your personal business and shooting your mouth off about how much money you are making so that everyone knows you are rolling in dough from their perspectives. They all probably think that you are making "easy" money online and hitting you up for every minor emergency is becoming a way of life for these people. You need to move out on your own if you haven't already, and tell anyone that asks that you are in some financial trouble with your own debts, and that the bank is closed.

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

This is insane. Your family & friends are making a fool out of you. You're a 24 year old young guy and I have no idea how you are making so much money in adult or mainstream that you can afford to piss it away like this. But you are obviously telling everyone you know way too much of your personal business and shooting your mouth off about how much money you are making so that everyone knows you are rolling in dough from their perspectives. They all probably think that you are making "easy" money online and hitting you up for every minor emergency is becoming a way of life for these people. You need to move out on your own if you haven't already, and tell anyone that asks that you are in some financial trouble with your own debts, and that the bank is closed.

i already moved out but apart from this girl i havent had anyone ask for a loan in a long time. i tell everyone shit is hard and im working 18hrs/day and making peanuts.. but remember this is someone im close to saying hey give me 10k i need it for biz, ill give it back in < a week max..

will76 · 05-27-2010, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

thanks for the mean wake up call will..im gonna get my money back

no problem sometimes the most honest answers are the ones we don't want to hear and we don't like hearing.

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

truth is ive spent so much money on family.. if i had to put an estimate its at least 100k in the past 3-4yrs.. i remember this cousin who was like a bro to me, he kept borrowing $1k from me like every week , he would come up with reasons and id feel bad and loan him the money.. mofo owes me at least $50k now.. i wrote all that off..

as for money ive been careful with it.. i dont splurge on expensive crap like watches, etc.. ive been saving like a mad man, but then i dont know why i made a rookie mistake of giving this girl money.. u r right she prolly knows im too nice to her to even ask her for it back, so im gonna change all that and ask for my money back.. fuck the friendship i know way too many girls here its cool if i lose one..

$10k is a lot of money to just write off.. ive written off tons of $500-1,000 loans, but never $10k.. fuck that..

my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them

You are making no sense. You said you loaned a cousin over 50K over time that he still owes you and you could write that off but you can't let go a 10K loan? What matters more, the amount of time the money was let go over or the total owed. So what you gave the cousin 1K a week and it totalled up to 50K. Hell that is worse than this 10K loan. Not because it is 40K more but because he time after time never paid you back and you kept giving him more each week.

Well in your case, tell them they still owe you money from last time so you can't give them more. Or if you live modest like you say you do then how in the fuck do they know how much money you have in the bank. Tell them your business doesn't do as good now and you simply don't have it, sorry.

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Originally Posted by Dvae

I'm saying for the future.

Did you by any chance get an IOU from your friend?

Second question. Any idea what she actually did with the money?

She is spending it on her Vegas trip in a couple weeks LOL.

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by will76

no problem sometimes the most honest answers are the ones we don't want to hear and we don't like hearing.

i know.. ill never criticize anyone for giving me an honest answer even if its mean.. appreciate it.. learned a lot today.. i guess ill learn more with age and experience..

xxweekxx · 05-27-2010, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by will76

no problem sometimes the most honest answers are the ones we don't want to hear and we don't like hearing.

You are making no sense. You said you loaned a cousin over 50K over time that he still owes you and you could write that off but you can't let go a 10K loan? What matters more, the amount of time the money was let go over or the total owed. So what you gave the cousin 1K a week and it totalled up to 50K. Hell that is worse than this 10K loan. Not because it is 40K more but because he time after time never paid you back and you kept giving him more each week.

Well in your case, tell them they still owe you money from last time so you can't give them more. Or if you live modest like you say you do then how in the fuck do they know how much money you have in the bank. Tell them your business doesn't do as good now and you simply don't have it, sorry.

difference is my cousin was over few years and i never expected it.. $500 here, $1000 here, $200 here.. he is poor and i never expected him to pay back.. but he doesnt ask me for money anymore cuz last time i told him i was broke..

This chic is $10k and its supposed to be one week loan, biz is def not as good as b4, im also not willing to just write off $10k.. if it was $1k id be singing a different tune. but $10k.... anyway im gonna talk to her tomorrow and just tell her i need the money back, so when is she sending me a wire

xxweekxx · 05-28-2010, 07:43 AM

gonna ask her today.. will keep u guys updated

fatfoo · 05-28-2010, 07:55 AM

You have to mention the loan to the person and you have to say what action you will take if loan is not repaid in 1 week / 2 weeks / month, whatever time. Then you take the action you say you were going to take.

sternyduke · 05-28-2010, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Jim_Gunn

This is insane. Your family & friends are making a fool out of you. You're a 24 year old young guy and I have no idea how you are making so much money in adult or mainstream that you can afford to piss it away like this. But you are obviously telling everyone you know way too much of your personal business and shooting your mouth off about how much money you are making so that everyone knows you are rolling in dough from their perspectives. They all probably think that you are making "easy" money online and hitting you up for every minor emergency is becoming a way of life for these people. You need to move out on your own if you haven't already, and tell anyone that asks that you are in some financial trouble with your own debts, and that the bank is closed.

exactly what Jim_Gunn says! to many people know how much you make and consider you a mark who can afford to take the loss. you must have sucker written on your forehead man. i feel bad knowing your gonna get burned on this loan but 10 grand and no contract is pretty insane man....

will76 · 05-28-2010, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

difference is my cousin was over few years and i never expected it.. $500 here, $1000 here, $200 here.. he is poor and i never expected him to pay back.. but he doesnt ask me for money anymore cuz last time i told him i was broke..

This chic is $10k and its supposed to be one week loan, biz is def not as good as b4, im also not willing to just write off $10k.. if it was $1k id be singing a different tune. but $10k.... anyway im gonna talk to her tomorrow and just tell her i need the money back, so when is she sending me a wire

You said you loaned your cousin money, if you didn't expect it back it was a gift.

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Originally Posted by xxweekxx

gonna ask her today.. will keep u guys updated

Did you follow through ?

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