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bean-aid · 03-11-2013, 10:38 PM

What do you do with an ex-wife that keeps trying to get schools, police, and social services involved in an attempt to get full custody of your child? The method used is always some type of abuse.

Always off the wall, always dismissed, but always causes problems.

She always uses any service that is free.

Can I file criminal charges if I have enough to convince a judge that she is intentionally lying in an attempt to harm me and take full custody at the same time? Suing her would be worthless.

My custody attorney's never have anything to say of value on this subject (except file for full custody which will cost you). Should I look for a criminal attorney?

I mean can't I get some type of protection where if she files a false claim again she will get thrown in the slammer? Surely something must exist??

Mr Pheer · 03-11-2013, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by beaner

What do you do with an ex-wife that keeps trying to get schools, police, and social services involved in an attempt to get full custody of your child? The method used is always some type of abuse.

Always off the wall, always dismissed, but always causes problems.

She always uses any service that is free.

Can I file criminal charges if I have enough to convince a judge that she is intentionally lying in an attempt to harm me and take full custody at the same time? Suing her would be worthless.

My custody attorney's never have anything to say of value on this subject (except file for full custody which will cost you). Should I look for a criminal attorney?

I mean can't I get some type of protection where if she files a false claim again she will get thrown in the slammer? Surely something must exist??

You need to find a new attorney.

My family law attorney used anything & everything in the court room. Judges know the games that get played but it wont be addressed until an attorney aggressively brings up the subject.

2013 · 03-11-2013, 10:41 PM

goto your local children services get a case worker that knows what they are doing, tell them about it then when she calls they will know she is a psycho cunt !

baddog · 03-11-2013, 10:42 PM

Look up "vexatious litigation" for your state.

Mr Pheer · 03-11-2013, 10:42 PM

Forgot to add... yeah that shit is expensive. But worth it.

2013 · 03-11-2013, 10:45 PM

hire a hit man , theres a few on this board

BAKO · 03-11-2013, 11:26 PM

GFY lawyers lol

bean-aid · 03-11-2013, 11:42 PM

I cant sleep. Im going into her school tomorrow and explaining the issues. Then going to my police department filing a report. Then to social services and then ti my overpriced attorney.

Markul · 03-11-2013, 11:44 PM

And make sure you want to go down that road mate. I did and now more than a year later, is still going to courts and have laywer fees coming out of my ass.

But it is worth it. When we win that is

2013 · 03-11-2013, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by beaner

I cant sleep. Im going into her school tomorrow and explaining the issues. Then going to my police department filing a report. Then to social services and then ti my 460/hr attorney. Cheryl

i have seen many people get the smack down from social services, just be on there good side

Captain Kawaii · 03-11-2013, 11:45 PM

Cheryl's banging you on the hours. Check your email. Worse thing you can do is talk. Get a decent lawyer, come up with a plan, make them prepare an agreement and both of you sign it. I learned the hard way.

johnnyloadproductions · 03-12-2013, 12:06 AM

Sounds bad beaner.

It troubles me to all those that end up with a vindictive ex. You're better off giving up more than your fair share in amicable agreements then to go forth and go to court.

People would save themselves so much trouble if they learned to negotiate and plead before getting any lawyers involved.

Nonetheless I know a producer that swears he'll never get married again because of how much trouble and how much it costs to divorce. The thing I hate the most is the women do every mind game they can play to get back at you, and their lawyers help out.
Anyway, the two of them ended up agreeing to terms and then her lawyer told him what she could do and then they went at it. He had to lawyer up and it spend hundreds of thousands totalled because of it.
She also would rat at him and one time when he went to school to pick up his daughter at the administrative office they stopped him. They told him he couldn't pick her up because "he had shot porn in his duaughter's bedroom" and they accused him of this that. She even tried to accuse him of molestation, he took tests because he was so adamant and passed. She got custody and got him so he couldn't see his daughter unless there were police available at the YMCA. He said screw it and now he just gets the occasional letter from his daughters.

Nobody likes lawyers and so much trouble can be saved if people can be rational and and be nice, never happens though.

My dad told me a story of a man that cheated on his wife with a very attractive mistress. She found out, divorced him, and in the process completely cleaned him out. He told my dad that he was very close to killing four people; His ex, her lawyer, his lawyer, and himself. He got over it.

There is one case that is very circumstantial where somebody did die. My sister had a crazy ex that got extremely angry because her lawyer humilated him in court and pretty much she ended up with full custody if I remember. Well somewhere the lawyer disappeared and finally they sent out a search for him, they found his body on his property in the lake. My sister got a new lawyer and when her ex walked in her new lawyer (female) fainted (she knew what had happened).

Anyway, my point is see what you can resolve out of court, but from the sounds of it it's way past that point. Sorry to hear you are in this situation and good luck to you.

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03-11-2013, 10:38 PM	#1
bean-aid So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: the land of woke sleuths Posts: 16,493	GFY attorney's... inside please What do you do with an ex-wife that keeps trying to get schools, police, and social services involved in an attempt to get full custody of your child? The method used is always some type of abuse. Always off the wall, always dismissed, but always causes problems. She always uses any service that is free. Can I file criminal charges if I have enough to convince a judge that she is intentionally lying in an attempt to harm me and take full custody at the same time? Suing her would be worthless. My custody attorney's never have anything to say of value on this subject (except file for full custody which will cost you). Should I look for a criminal attorney? I mean can't I get some type of protection where if she files a false claim again she will get thrown in the slammer? Surely something must exist??

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03-11-2013, 11:42 PM	#8
bean-aid So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: the land of woke sleuths Posts: 16,493	I cant sleep. Im going into her school tomorrow and explaining the issues. Then going to my police department filing a report. Then to social services and then ti my overpriced attorney. Last edited by bean-aid; 03-11-2013 at 11:50 PM..

03-11-2013, 11:45 PM	#11
Captain Kawaii So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 6,748	Cheryl's banging you on the hours. Check your email. Worse thing you can do is talk. Get a decent lawyer, come up with a plan, make them prepare an agreement and both of you sign it. I learned the hard way. Last edited by Captain Kawaii; 03-11-2013 at 11:46 PM..

03-11-2013, 10:41 PM	#3
2013 So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: lollling Posts: 4,390	goto your local children services get a case worker that knows what they are doing, tell them about it then when she calls they will know she is a psycho cunt !

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Mr Pheer Living inside your head. Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: In your AirBNB Posts: 20,414	Forgot to add... yeah that shit is expensive. But worth it.

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03-12-2013, 12:06 AM	#12
johnnyloadproductions Account Shutdown Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Gone Posts: 3,611	Sounds bad beaner. It troubles me to all those that end up with a vindictive ex. You're better off giving up more than your fair share in amicable agreements then to go forth and go to court. People would save themselves so much trouble if they learned to negotiate and plead before getting any lawyers involved. Nonetheless I know a producer that swears he'll never get married again because of how much trouble and how much it costs to divorce. The thing I hate the most is the women do every mind game they can play to get back at you, and their lawyers help out. Anyway, the two of them ended up agreeing to terms and then her lawyer told him what she could do and then they went at it. He had to lawyer up and it spend hundreds of thousands totalled because of it. She also would rat at him and one time when he went to school to pick up his daughter at the administrative office they stopped him. They told him he couldn't pick her up because "he had shot porn in his duaughter's bedroom" and they accused him of this that. She even tried to accuse him of molestation, he took tests because he was so adamant and passed. She got custody and got him so he couldn't see his daughter unless there were police available at the YMCA. He said screw it and now he just gets the occasional letter from his daughters. Nobody likes lawyers and so much trouble can be saved if people can be rational and and be nice, never happens though. My dad told me a story of a man that cheated on his wife with a very attractive mistress. She found out, divorced him, and in the process completely cleaned him out. He told my dad that he was very close to killing four people; His ex, her lawyer, his lawyer, and himself. He got over it. There is one case that is very circumstantial where somebody did die. My sister had a crazy ex that got extremely angry because her lawyer humilated him in court and pretty much she ended up with full custody if I remember. Well somewhere the lawyer disappeared and finally they sent out a search for him, they found his body on his property in the lake. My sister got a new lawyer and when her ex walked in her new lawyer (female) fainted (she knew what had happened). Anyway, my point is see what you can resolve out of court, but from the sounds of it it's way past that point. Sorry to hear you are in this situation and good luck to you.

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