Excellent post.

this is USA, not some 3rd world shithole. if you think nasty, vile and horrible rehabilitates criminals you may want to look at any 3rd world shithole's prison system to see exactly how wrong you are.

good thing people that think that way don't run shit in USA.

Savage is when you take one hundred prisoners, throw them into a open pen, and say "every man for themselves".

The vast majority of these criminals will be released from prison and the best it will ever get for them will be an entry level position making minimum wage. Donny, who will be listed as a sex offender for the rest of his life, will never hold a decent job again - ever. The best it will ever get for him is a cashier at 7-11. Teaching someone like this a trade is worthless.

Two thirds of them are re-offending as it is. Teaching them a trade doesn't change the fact that they are criminals with a criminal record, which is why so many of them re-offend - they have little hope of being a productive citizen again.

Something tells me that he will come back here...

Sure. Donny will not be able to stay away from a place where there is the word Fuck in the title. ;)

Well, guess who has access to the Internet again..... And this story just gets stranger and stranger. Now Donny wants to tell the world his story.

Holy shit:

On December 1st, 2014, I was accused of illegal activity by Bethany, a 16 year old girl who I love very much. In fact, I might as well get something out there right now, something that will make most of you scratch your heads or decide I must be mentally unstable or the world?s biggest scumbag: I fell in love with Bethany. I was 40 years old, and she was only 16. She?d lived with me for four years and I was entrusted to care for her and to ensure she received the best High School education possible. I should never have allowed myself to get as close to her as I did, and should have instead kept a healthy father/daughter type of relationship with her. I know all of these things, and I intend to get counseling to figure out what?s wrong with me. I?m not going to make excuses for myself in any way; I?m just going to tell you how things were and I?ll share with you how it came to be that I fell head over heels for a teenager, and how that same teenager eventually went to her mother with accusations that ended up landing me in jail.

And then....

Around age 13, Bethany began telling me that she was going to marry me one day. Knowing this is something that is quite normal for girls her age (to think such thoughts about a father figure or strong adult male in their life), I didn?t pay it much attention, other than to think it was very cute. When she?d claim that I was her boyfriend, I?d chuckle while saying something like, ?Well, if that keeps you away from the boys, feel free to think of me as your boyfriend.? By the time she was 16, yet still insisted she was going to marry me someday, I talked to her dad about it. His response wasn?t what I expected: ?Well, if the priest thing doesn?t work out for you, I?d be happy to call you my son-in-law. Lots of people would give you shit for it, but I wouldn?t be one of them.? I shared this conversation with both Catie and Bethany. We?d joke about it, but Bethany would tell me in private that she wasn?t joking. I told her that she?d outgrow it one day, especially during her college years, and that some boy would come along who would make those feelings disappear. She insisted that wasn?t going to be the case. Her feelings were often hurt when I?d speak of becoming a priest, because she knew priests couldn?t get married. We had conversations about this. I asked her how old she thought she?d be when she married me. She said she thought she?d be in her early to mid-20s. I told her that I?d make a deal with her: if she didn?t find someone to take her mind off of such thoughts once she was in college, and she still felt like she still wanted to marry me, we could talk about it when she was in her mid-20s. But for now, it might be time for her to date boys her own age. Secretly, however, I hoped she was right and that her feelings wouldn?t change. I believed that by her mid-20s, when she was old enough to marry, I could think of nobody I?d rather spend my life with than her. And I started looking around online for examples of couples such as Celine Dion and her husband Rene, who had a bigger difference in their age than Bethany and I. There were many of them. That, along with what Bethany?s father, Ron, had said to me, made me think it wasn?t so crazy to ponder marrying Beth. Now, sometimes, I wonder if there?s something wrong with me, and I intend to go to counseling to find out. To be honest with you, I?d fallen head-over-heels in love with Bethany.

And it seems he is still in love with her...

What I also want everyone to know is that Bethany is very important to me, and I miss her and love her very much. Tears come to my eyes every single day because of this situation, and none of them are due to my imprisonment. My weeping comes as a result of worry over being away from my son, over Bethany, over feelings of betrayal, and over feelings that I?ve failed her and can do absolutely nothing about it. I wanted to show her the world, and that?s exactly what I intended to do once she?d graduated High School (take her to several countries and on as many of my speaking engagements as possible). I was arrested on December 1st: my plans before that, for Christmas, were to give her driving lessons, followed by a Subaru Tribeca as her first car. I spoiled her as much as I was capable of spoiling her. I loved her, knew it was unhealthy to feel as I felt about her, but couldn?t seem to stop myself. So it is possible that she did me and herself a very huge favor when she went with her mother to speak with police. I?ll now get help that I wouldn?t have sought out prior to this.

For some reason I cannot post a link to his blog from here, but it's on the top of his Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/donnypauling

From the formatting it looks like he wrote a long ass letter, like he did to me, gave it to his mom and then she typed it all up and posted it.

You are obsessed with this story, up to the minute obsessed.

What a weird thing to do.

Can't cure those feelings, just keep him away and occupied with something else... like trolling GFY. lol

This is not surprising, it's expected. He is going to twist this whole saga into a big misunderstanding and when he gets out of jail will already have something lined up to fuel his ego. This is who he is. There is another thread right now about whether or not people can be rehabilitated. This is the kind of guy that cannot be rehabilitated.

Always the victim. Yet always the savior.

I'm curious what group of people he will hook on the next round. I would not be surprised if he goes back to the religious. Maybe the born-again crowd. They get away with anything.

who gives a fuck what some pedo cunt wrote... why post that shit here now he has been convicted? I've been following along like most people but fuck, this is a porn board, and it's somehow a place to post shit about how some pedo 'loves' a 16 year old?

w t f

It's this thread, ya drunkard :winkwink:

LOL.

I am having an "off" day.

There's nothing BUT punishment. Our prisons are living hells, unless you're wealthy enough to pay your way onto a work farm. We incarcerate more people than any other civilized nation. Our recidivism rates are among the highest, we use prisoners as slave labor, we sell them like cattle to private prison operators.

Countries that focus on rehab have recidivism rates about 1/3 of ours.

What the fuck kind of country do you people want to live in?

Not as much as you think. I surely don't track Donny or watch his Facebook page, but there is a number of people who are watching his Facebook page and feeding me information.

I agree completely. "Always the victim, yet always the savior". He knows he's done wrong but he is trying to justify it. Fucking creepy.

Donny's blog has like a 20 page update of something, just too damn long and can't read, plus, it says hahahahaha when I try to link it.

^^oops... posted on page 33 already.

Looks like FB won't show any profile info unless you're logged in. Can you obfuscate the URL to post it here?

edit: donnys%ramblings.wordpress.com (remove %)

First thing I did was scroll through the wall of text to see the comments. Zero so far. Pah!

https://donny...sramblings.wordpress...a-misdemeanor/

delete the ...

Too much too read. Sounds like he said some young girl loved him and trapped him.

I don't think he could have a good job before or after going to jail. No difference. He has always been fucked.

"In this case, with Bethany and two of her friends making accusations against me, I know what I’ve actually done, and I take responsibility for those things. I also know what I haven’t done. And when I pled “no contest” it meant, to me, “I am not going to contest these things nor argue them anymore, and I’m not going to call these teens liars.” Legally, “no contest” is the same as pleading guilty. That’s okay with me. No matter how this case had ended, there would have been those who believed every word spoken against me, and those who didn’t believe it at all. To me, “no contest” also means, “Bethany, I love you and I think you’re a very brave girl. You are a hero, and I refuse to call you a liar. Even though you may never choose to speak to me again, you are very special and important to me and I will never, ever regret the time I spent with you and Catie. I hope you make good choices. I hope you work hard in school, go on to college, and have a successful and happy life. Always know that, despite what others might tell you, I am on your side and am your biggest fan. You rock!”

Yes, I was a porn producer for 9 years, contracting with Playboy and a group of other well known companies. Yes, I have become a Christian. And yes, I now speak publicly about what goes on behind the scenes here on this blog as well as at numerous Churches and Universities (including Yale University ? WOOT!) across this great country of ours. But the reason I speak about what goes on ?behind the scenes? of porn is NOT because I have become a Christian. I do so because someone needs to do so. Porn is often portrayed as great fun, happy go lucky, and victimless. The fantasy shown on screen seems fantastic. The realities of porn, however, are not even close. I am a firm believer in freedom of speech and expression, and it is my personal belief that education, not legislation, is what changes hearts. Therefore it is my goal to educate so that those who hear can make a more informed decision. If you?d like to begin the education process, start with some of the stories I tell in the porn stories category on this blog (click here).
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Although I was raised as the son of a Pastor while growing up, I began making my living producing pornography in the summer of 1997. I continued in the adult industry until Monday, September 25th, 2006. On that day I was driving in my car praying to God. If you?d like to know more of that story, browse through this website, or watch one of the videos I?ve posted.

What a sick religious whacko...

Okay, I've been reading his rant on and off for the past few hours.

The general gist seems to be that he's a hero because he's pleading no contest, in order to spare her the trauma of having to testify at trial and have his lawyer call her a liar. Rock on! But he doesn't actually admit to having sex with her, even though he says he's in love with her, and she was with him. Then again, he doesn't deny it, or maybe I missed that sentence amongst the 5,000 others?

*reload* Still no comments on the blog post.

ok - i read it - he needs help. A lot.

but the most disturbing are his Facebook friends that "pray for him"

I skimmed it, but it rambles on and I didn't have time (or maybe the desire) to read it all today. It seems like you hit the nail on the head. He admits being in love with her and that he did some wrong things, but he makes it out like she is still lying, but that she probably "believes" she is telling the truth.

It sounds like he is going into all of this as if he is the victim and he will likely maintain that attitude as he serves his time and then when he gets out.

I won't be surprised to see him trying to get back in this business once he gets out of jail.

Jesus, that a long post to read. Cliff notes anyone? Got to the point about loosing 100K job and quit. he was making 100K off his tales? Now that some good marketing.

Kane, Donny's MO is wall of text, even in person... and as the wall goes on and on reality starts shifting towards Donny's innocence. by the end the wall of text makes complete sense :thumbsup

As I mentioned, he is already working his angle.

He will be out in minimum. I think I saw three years?

He has three years to get things set. He will do it. More people will be duped. Hopefully this time he stays away from vulnerable minors, although I'm sure with his predator instincts he will just find another group. Maybe this time seniors that feel sorry for him.

Don't be surprised if he starts one of those cash scam churches.

"The Lord saved me. Let me save you."

So looks like everyone know this guy. So I assume he is/was industry. I HOPE no one will ever do business with him, so he won't be part of us anymore :2 cents:

There are a lot of charges there, so I believe they're not all false... One is already one too much....

I feel like I need a shower after reading that

"I loved her, knew it was unhealthy to feel as I felt about her, but couldn?t seem to stop myself. So it is possible that she did me and herself a very huge favor when she went with her mother to speak with police. I?ll now get help that I wouldn?t have sought out prior to this."

...slipped into a wall of text that serves only to minimize and deflect the severity and criminality of his actions. So he knows that he's wrong but yet strives to find every excuse under the sun to minimize and deflect his behavior? unfuckingreal

It deeply concerns me that he will end up back out on the streets

After this epic thread I doubt anyone will do business with him again.

does he address the mc elfresh thing?

He seems to believe "It's okay" because he "really loved her". Isn't that what they all say?

After he crapped on the XXX world for 9 years, it is not surprising that Donny Pauling does not enjoy much sympathy in a forum such as this one.

I imagine that many people have felt a secret satisfaction to see him entangled in legal problems.

There's a word for that secret satisfaction: "schadenfreude".

Not at all.

Part of his plea included mc elfresh watching him have sex with the girl included in it. Read back 1 or 2 pages

He's already in a year. Probably in halfway house in another year. I'm sure he will post here the day he gets out.

To say that we are bad boys and sinners and that he is a good boy and a man who obeys God's will? ;)

One would reckon the conditions of his Parole will keep Donny away from GFY and the adult industry for some time.

I doubt the Christian world will welcome him back. My money is on Donny joining ISIS upon release.