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dank · 08-12-2001, 07:53 PM

The Fly is totally right on about this.

This whole "younger girl and much older guy" thing is in reality a very natural thing.

It's just that most of the laws in this world have brainwashed us into only accepting what's natural at a certain level.

i believe there may be hope sometime in the future for changing all this. And my belief is due to the fact that I've met dozens of teens (about 90% of them female) who have personal agendas that involve getting petitions signed to change laws in their states regarding sexual legal age. All of them i talked to believe that the statutory rape laws are foolish and that they should not even exist. These people are our future and I happen to agree with them fully.

And just because these people I talked to are between the ages of 13-19 doesn't mean in any way that it's childish or an immature point of view. I think all of our opinions should count for something regardless of age. Just let nature take it's course and let nature be our guide to what is to what ages are acceptable.

I know this sounds flighty but I think this point of view has value to it and is worth considering.
I've heard of much crazier things.

Babagirls · 08-12-2001, 10:57 PM

okay.....now I have a big problem with that last post!!!!!

The age of when a gurl can have sex is set because of other (more important) reasons!

A 16 girl is not FULLY grown (and i'm not talking about boobs!) I'm talking about the mind, and the physical develpoment (inside & outside the body!)

And I dont care how "mature" you or the actual girl THINKS she is! She is NOT! She may be smarter than hell, but she STILL isnt "mature".

The 16 yr old girl we are all talking about *IS* indeed smart, witty, and she shocks me sometimes too! But when I was driving her to McDonalds last week, she saw her ex-boyfriend and said :

"Can you speed up so that I can make him see me then speed away so we look cool? I want to make him jealous!"

Okay..how "mature" is that???

Exxxotica · 08-12-2001, 11:01 PM

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Originally posted by Babagirls:

A 16 girl is not FULLY grown (and i'm not talking about boobs!) I'm talking about the mind

Since when does a girls mind have anything to do with sex?

Babagirls · 08-12-2001, 11:03 PM

pornJester · 08-12-2001, 11:11 PM

I think this girl doesn't know what she's getting into and this guy is a loser/moron, you choose. First of all this girl hasn't been through the best years of her life yet (college!) and she's going to miss it all if she's with this old fuck... This dude seems like he hasn't got laid in a while so he's hitting up the schoolyards... all pretty pathetic!

Babagirls · 08-12-2001, 11:16 PM

Alright...you just called my best friend a moron and an old fuck and he has NO PROBLEM getting laid!!!!! You dont even know the guy! HOWEVER, i can TOTALLY see where you would say something like that (hell, i would too if the shoe was on the other foot! So, i cant really bitch at you, ya know?!)

He would never "just date" or "just to fuck" this girl!!!!! It scares HIM cause he is falling in love with her! And she is so young!

theWatsonian · 08-13-2001, 12:33 AM

Babagirls, I can really identify with your friend, having been in a similar situation.
I didn't go to college until I was 26 years old. At that time I was recovering from a long period as a social hermit. I was making inroads with my undiagnosed Social phobia and learning to "be normal" when I discovered all the people my own age were carrying far more baggage than I could handle.
I talked to counselors that told me to just do what I love and be sociable with the people I meet doing those things. So I did. I met a lot of interesting people and dated some of them.
The young women I dated were college age, 17-23 years old.
Whatever our personal philosophies may be, we must always keep in mind the law of the land.
I cared about the young woman I was seeing so I waited. It was the smart thing to do.
You know, we can't control who we fall in love with but we can control how we act on our feelings. That's an important point to remember.

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BobTheGimp · 08-13-2001, 03:24 AM

well wether the parents are ok with it or not the girl needs to do some growing up. in this sit i would have to say she is to young. i only say this cause i have been there done that. young dumb and full of cum isnt the answer. wait till she is like in her 20's

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08-12-2001, 11:03 PM	#54
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	LOL

08-12-2001, 07:53 PM	#51
dank Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 1,674	The Fly is totally right on about this. This whole "younger girl and much older guy" thing is in reality a very natural thing. It's just that most of the laws in this world have brainwashed us into only accepting what's natural at a certain level. i believe there may be hope sometime in the future for changing all this. And my belief is due to the fact that I've met dozens of teens (about 90% of them female) who have personal agendas that involve getting petitions signed to change laws in their states regarding sexual legal age. All of them i talked to believe that the statutory rape laws are foolish and that they should not even exist. These people are our future and I happen to agree with them fully. And just because these people I talked to are between the ages of 13-19 doesn't mean in any way that it's childish or an immature point of view. I think all of our opinions should count for something regardless of age. Just let nature take it's course and let nature be our guide to what is to what ages are acceptable. I know this sounds flighty but I think this point of view has value to it and is worth considering. I've heard of much crazier things.

08-12-2001, 10:57 PM	#52
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	okay.....now I have a big problem with that last post!!!!! The age of when a gurl can have sex is set because of other (more important) reasons! A 16 girl is not FULLY grown (and i'm not talking about boobs!) I'm talking about the mind, and the physical develpoment (inside & outside the body!) And I dont care how "mature" you or the actual girl THINKS she is! She is NOT! She may be smarter than hell, but she STILL isnt "mature". The 16 yr old girl we are all talking about IS indeed smart, witty, and she shocks me sometimes too! But when I was driving her to McDonalds last week, she saw her ex-boyfriend and said : "Can you speed up so that I can make him see me then speed away so we look cool? I want to make him jealous!" Okay..how "mature" is that???

08-12-2001, 11:11 PM	#55
pornJester Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Florida Posts: 6,138	I think this girl doesn't know what she's getting into and this guy is a loser/moron, you choose. First of all this girl hasn't been through the best years of her life yet (college!) and she's going to miss it all if she's with this old fuck... This dude seems like he hasn't got laid in a while so he's hitting up the schoolyards... all pretty pathetic!

08-12-2001, 11:16 PM	#56
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	Alright...you just called my best friend a moron and an old fuck and he has NO PROBLEM getting laid!!!!! You dont even know the guy! HOWEVER, i can TOTALLY see where you would say something like that (hell, i would too if the shoe was on the other foot! So, i cant really bitch at you, ya know?!) He would never "just date" or "just to fuck" this girl!!!!! It scares HIM cause he is falling in love with her! And she is so young!

08-13-2001, 12:33 AM	#57
theWatsonian Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: PB4L HQ Posts: 1,737	Babagirls, I can really identify with your friend, having been in a similar situation. I didn't go to college until I was 26 years old. At that time I was recovering from a long period as a social hermit. I was making inroads with my undiagnosed Social phobia and learning to "be normal" when I discovered all the people my own age were carrying far more baggage than I could handle. I talked to counselors that told me to just do what I love and be sociable with the people I meet doing those things. So I did. I met a lot of interesting people and dated some of them. The young women I dated were college age, 17-23 years old. Whatever our personal philosophies may be, we must always keep in mind the law of the land. I cared about the young woman I was seeing so I waited. It was the smart thing to do. You know, we can't control who we fall in love with but we can control how we act on our feelings. That's an important point to remember. ------------------ PornShare reviewer - I look at dirty pictures ICQ four2four0four928

08-13-2001, 03:24 AM	#58
BobTheGimp Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: santa clarita ca usa Posts: 5	well wether the parents are ok with it or not the girl needs to do some growing up. in this sit i would have to say she is to young. i only say this cause i have been there done that. young dumb and full of cum isnt the answer. wait till she is like in her 20's ------------------ You can pick your nose and you can pick your friends, but you cant wipe your friends off on the couch