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sexuallyhealed · 12-29-2009, 03:55 AM

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Originally Posted by fatfoo

I get off on not cheating. Like I never cheated on Caroline when I was her boyfriend. I still have her pillow heart and Playboy cologne that she bought me as presents on Valentine's day. I still have the Dracula plate, too.

We had a lot of fun with Caroline. We really did.

We went to Woodbine Casino, we went to Aren't We Naughty's to buy halloween costumes and we went to Eaton's Centre and some other places.

you sound insane

ShellyCrash · 12-29-2009, 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by kronic

Women are different than men. While I agree that "MEN are as faithful as their options", this simply isn't the case for women. If it was, practically NO women could leave the house and come home again without fucking three or four guys. Yeah, they have THAT many options.

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nation-x · 12-29-2009, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Twisted Dave

That's a terrible conclusion! It's utterly untrue. Most guys don't want their girl having sex with other guys, much like most girls don't want their guy having sex with other girls. It's not insecurity. It's that most people aren't into it. Simple.

The premise of your statement is false... however, if you read what I posted again you will see I wasn't making a generalization... I specifically referred to those that are insecure... You say you have threesomes... hypothetically speaking, if she wanted to have a threesome with a guy would you be cool with that? You have already demonstrated that you are ok with having a threesome with a female. My statement was about guys/girls that want to fuck someone other than their significant other but are not open to allowing their significant other the same latitude. That is insecurity.

Monogamy is a commitment to principle. Anyone that says that they are no longer sexually attracted to other people once they have committed to a relationship is lying. We are all human and it's in our nature.

nation-x · 12-29-2009, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

most people never get to into the swinger thing until later in life. i don't know if its boredom or maturity hell yeah, i am insecure. anyone who is actually willing to be honest with themselves has to admit it. trusting someone leaves you vunerable. anyone at anytime can violate that trust and you may never know it. its a hard thing and definitely not black and white like you want to think.

BlackCrayon · 12-29-2009, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by nation-x

you are insecure too. you just want to squash it down and pretend its not there. we all have a bit in there somewhere. just wait until one of her little flings start to call her at odd times and she leaves the room to answer the call or something similar. like i said before, the only way to be completely 100% secure is to have no emotional attachment to the person.

MetaMan · 12-29-2009, 11:52 AM

The only cheaters i know are women.

i think a huge factor is whether or not your parents remained faithful or not. you are a product of your environment.

the people i know who cheated always came from a broken home.

i dont care what people say i will never cheat, i am very old school. sex does not run my life and it never will.

honesty is the best policy. people who cannot be honest with themselves and others about their actions are very weak minded people.

O MARINA · 12-29-2009, 11:55 AM

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Dirty Lord · 12-29-2009, 11:57 AM

i really think about this can be possible...BUT with some rules envolved.
like free-mind to sex, etc.

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	The only cheaters i know are women. i think a huge factor is whether or not your parents remained faithful or not. you are a product of your environment. the people i know who cheated always came from a broken home. i dont care what people say i will never cheat, i am very old school. sex does not run my life and it never will. honesty is the best policy. people who cannot be honest with themselves and others about their actions are very weak minded people.