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Old 10-30-2011, 09:06 AM   #51
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come on donate anything to that charity and get my sig for a month. You can even just ask me to stop posting for a month like that last guy

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Old 10-30-2011, 10:54 AM   #52
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Well I never spent a dime on her, and when I did bought next time. Soooo....dunno...if I was buying dinner or stuff, then I would agree, but it was 50/50...

I knew from the start I wouldn't spend money on a stripper.
Sorry but just because she paid for dinner a few times does not mean she wouldn't accept money for sex. and other things... rent/car payment/nails/tanning.... she was sniffing you out hardcore.

And she is pro. Those girls use men for as long as they can. The best strippers I've known work those old lonely guys and get ALL sorts of free shit. They don't always have sex with them either, I've seen that scenario many times.

You mentioned she was your type though, are you sure?
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I am 100% confident in who I am. Tall, slim, handsome, great person. No issues.

I think that's why it irks me that she choose a coke addicted tattooed fighter. Nothing of value there, just flash in the pan. And probably from all the grease that comes off him.

She is not even in my league, but I offered my affections none the less. She is the one that blew it.
You tried to make a sex tape with her! hidden camera and all.

maybe she made the right choice... sorry but lol
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I am 100% confident in who I am. Tall, slim, handsome, great person. No issues.

I think that's why it irks me that she choose a coke addicted tattooed fighter. Nothing of value there, just flash in the pan. And probably from all the grease that comes off him.

She is not even in my league, but I offered my affections none the less. She is the one that blew it.
She chose the man. Go get a pedicure and decompress.
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So this is the former "girlfriend" of camperjohn in this scenario. I'm allergic to drama but I also cant stand the smell of bullshit so I'm compelled to post. I've been doing some interesting reading tonight on GFY. I forget why I even came over here now. I dont log in often (obviously). Thought I'd be in bed asleep a couple hours ago but wow. It's like a train wreck. I probably couldn't sleep now if I wanted to.

john and I have dated for three years. We've always had an open arrangement and agreed if one of us found a more ideal person we'd let the other know and no hard feelings. Of course that's harder to swallow (so to speak) when it actually happens and feelings have expanded to something you didn't intend (at least for me, and he started the gf/bf stuff), especially when you're on the receiving end of the dumping, but whatever. I play fair and I stuck to our agreement and have been dealing with my own emotions and insecurities. We even spent Saturday night together going to Gaslamp to check out all the drunks in costume and we had fun. Well at least I had fun.

I've worked in this industry for a decade plus. I stay behind the scenes so most people don't know me. I'm openminded. I've been to swingers clubs/parties, I've played at Lair De Sade, and yes, we did watch the porn videos john was in at my request. I even point out girls I think are hot (not into them in general, but I still appreciate what most would consider beautiful), especially the blonde ones in john's case since that's what he likes. Most guys think I'm pretty fucking cool because I'm so openminded and while I dont look like Mindy, I'm not ugly either. (I'm sure the trolls will say different. Whatever.) The only thing I want is the truth, and respect. Isn't that common courtesy in a relationship like this?

The thing that's really ringing in my head is the bragging about me getting there five minutes after Mindy left back in August before I knew anything about this because YOU, john, did not keep our agreement and tell me you had something on the line. That is so low, both the bragging online and not telling me when you should have. Where is the class that I know you possess somewhere down in there? You say I didn't piss you off, but seriously, WTF? Did you forget I'm not "content?"

You know that final exaggerated kick they always give the guy that's getting the beating in the movies? That's exactly what I'm feeling right now. Thanks for the lesson.
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Old 10-31-2011, 07:04 AM   #57
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Don't post stuff to gfy if your girlfriend is on gfy, geez man....she does sound pretty cool though...its too easy to take what you already have for granted.
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Are you being sarcastic? Nevermind. If I had a shred of trust left tonight's "light reading" well and truly killed it.
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Trayce, you are a very good writer. Loving your blog.
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I'm available for revenge sex ......

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Old 10-31-2011, 08:18 AM   #63
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Thank you. Apparently I will have plenty of time now to update it.

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L-Pink, some of your comments were priceless. Can I be your next ex?

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That is PRECISELY what I've been thinking about for about a week now. I'm just not into girls enough to switch teams tho!
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So this is the former "girlfriend" of camperjohn in this scenario. I'm allergic to drama but I also cant stand the smell of bullshit so I'm compelled to post. I've been doing some interesting reading tonight on GFY. I forget why I even came over here now. I dont log in often (obviously). Thought I'd be in bed asleep a couple hours ago but wow. It's like a train wreck. I probably couldn't sleep now if I wanted to.

john and I have dated for three years. We've always had an open arrangement and agreed if one of us found a more ideal person we'd let the other know and no hard feelings. Of course that's harder to swallow (so to speak) when it actually happens and feelings have expanded to something you didn't intend (at least for me, and he started the gf/bf stuff), especially when you're on the receiving end of the dumping, but whatever. I play fair and I stuck to our agreement and have been dealing with my own emotions and insecurities. We even spent Saturday night together going to Gaslamp to check out all the drunks in costume and we had fun. Well at least I had fun.

I've worked in this industry for a decade plus. I stay behind the scenes so most people don't know me. I'm openminded. I've been to swingers clubs/parties, I've played at Lair De Sade, and yes, we did watch the porn videos john was in at my request. I even point out girls I think are hot (not into them in general, but I still appreciate what most would consider beautiful), especially the blonde ones in john's case since that's what he likes. Most guys think I'm pretty fucking cool because I'm so openminded and while I dont look like Mindy, I'm not ugly either. (I'm sure the trolls will say different. Whatever.) The only thing I want is the truth, and respect. Isn't that common courtesy in a relationship like this?

The thing that's really ringing in my head is the bragging about me getting there five minutes after Mindy left back in August before I knew anything about this because YOU, john, did not keep our agreement and tell me you had something on the line. That is so low, both the bragging online and not telling me when you should have. Where is the class that I know you possess somewhere down in there? You say I didn't piss you off, but seriously, WTF? Did you forget I'm not "content?"

You know that final exaggerated kick they always give the guy that's getting the beating in the movies? That's exactly what I'm feeling right now. Thanks for the lesson.
i don't get why this is the 'end' for you. you admitted here that you had an open relationship with caveats to tell the other 'when someone better comes along'. From my and i am assuming gfys understanding, he found no such thing.

men are attracted to manipulative bitches like moths to a flame. don't blame us, it's our nature.

from where i am sitting in my basic gist and understanding, you guys have come to a point in a relationship where it isn't an 'open relationship' any more. rather than 'ending' things over a message board, perhaps it's time for camperjohn to put away the camera and pony up for a real nice dinner
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i don't get why this is the 'end' for you. you admitted here that you had an open relationship with caveats to tell the other 'when someone better comes along'. From my and i am assuming gfys understanding, he found no such thing.

men are attracted to manipulative bitches like moths to a flame. don't blame us, it's our nature.

from where i am sitting in my basic gist and understanding, you guys have come to a point in a relationship where it isn't an 'open relationship' any more. rather than 'ending' things over a message board, perhaps it's time for camperjohn to put away the camera and pony up for a real nice dinner
According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.
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According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.
that sounds more like a closed relationship. i believe if that is the case, the general situation wasn't clearly clarified and therefore they should discuss new terms.

one assumes an 'open relationship' allows some leeway, and john wasn't even sleeping with this chick, and probably had the idea he never would.

should he hurt this ladys feelings over some slight, and ultimately platonic, infatuation?

does she not do this herself?
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According to her post, it appears that their open relationship consisted of each party being honest and forthcoming when they were seeing someone else on the side and it seems John wasn't. I'm sure it hurt her reading about his intense infatuation with this other girl, and I'm sure she got a little laugh out of him getting rejected.
I should have said something. I didn't really think it was going anywhere with this girl, but I still should have said something.

Even though I never slept with her, cheating emotionally is just as hurtful as cheating physically.
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that sounds more like a closed relationship. i believe if that is the case, the general situation wasn't clearly clarified and therefore they should discuss new terms.

one assumes an 'open relationship' allows some leeway, and john wasn't even sleeping with this chick, and probably had the idea he never would.

should he hurt this ladys feelings over some slight, and ultimately platonic, infatuation?

does she not do this herself?
Open relationships are usually based on sex with other people, not emotions for other people and it was pretty clear the guy thought he was in love with the stripper. That violates most rules of most open relationships. Banging her and forgetting her would have been a different thing.
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Open relationships are usually based on sex with other people, not emotions for other people and it was pretty clear the guy thought he was in love with the stripper. That violates most rules of most open relationships. Banging her and forgetting her would have been a different thing.
ahh ok. so an open relationship allows for fucking and forgetting about women, but god forbid he has a friendship?

so you think what Tracy is mad about is simply the fact the dude is somewhat of a nice guy, who doesn't abuse and use women?
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ahh ok. so an open relationship allows for fucking and forgetting about women, but god forbid he has a friendship?

so you think what Tracy is mad about is simply the fact the dude is somewhat of a nice guy, who doesn't abuse and use women?
He endless postings about her never gave you the vibe he'd marry the stripper the next day if she asked? Really? That guy was so pressed it was ridiculous.
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He endless postings about her never gave you the vibe he'd marry the stripper the next day if she asked? Really? That guy was so pressed it was ridiculous.
i saw you posted three messages in this thread about 11.30pm your time? on a saturday?
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i saw you posted three messages in this thread about 11.30pm your time? on a saturday?
Did you happen to see the weather reports in south Florida this weekend because of rina? Your answer may be there ...
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i saw you posted three messages in this thread about 11.30pm your time? on a saturday?
I can think of a few million reasons why someone living in Miami would want to stay home on a Saturday night.
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When things were starting to crash and burn, a $28 hidden camera was my friend.

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was raining here too
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was raining here too
We have had 4" just today and it has been going on since Friday. Now under flash flood warning until 10 pm. You can try to prove a point but its been dead around here. Even tried the big street festival last night and it was a ghost town.

Edit: if you weren't being sarcastic then my apologies.

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Yes we were open, but he wasn't honest and what made me so upset is that he's BRAGGING about keeping it from me on here. Not that I care what GFY thinks, but man, I feel like an idiot. I'm not blaming him cuz those are my own feelings. I know guys are dogs and it's hard to keep 'em on the porch. That's ok. But how does one misjudge character so completely? Someone like that I wouldn't even want to give the time of day to much less be friends with. And it doesn't matter if he ultimately got laid or not, the intent was there to have a relationship with her, not just bang her and go. If you have the intent for emotional attachment, then let me know dammit so I can deal with mine and we can be friends.

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Exactly. I actually feel sorry for him that he DIDNT at least get laid and gods... the insecurity. I knew he had some but holy christ. I never saw that between he and I. She totally played him, but duh, she's a stripper. Apparently she's good at it. Definitely some instant karma going on there.

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See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the planet.

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I thought he WAS a nice guy. Certainly it wouldn't have gone on between us for three years if I didnt think that. This is emotional abuse. I'll get over it because I dont subscribe to the victim mentality, but when you get hit, it's still going to hurt for a bit. I commend him for not taking most of y'alls advice about "raisin a pimp hand." LOL But I'm an idiot. I should've known the lying and sneaky shit wouldn't stop with him hiding me from his dance teacher since she's delusional about him just like he was delusional about Mindy. I just had no clue how bad the self esteem was. Geez, I thought I was HELPING him with that too. Guess I suck in more than one way.

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Tell me about it. I'm wondering how much footage he has of me. Put that together with the whole "when I'm mad at you I'll put all your photos and videos that I never asked permission to take on a web site under your name." Too bad some photographer in NY beat you to my domain when it became available john. Or is that really YOU Mr. Anderson? Ironic, no?

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Yeah, I thought long and hard (::snicker:: - c'mon, you know you have a bazillion jokes for that!) about fueling any fires by posting, but I feel like such an idiot for not figuring it out sooner that I had to post something just for my own satisfaction. Especially when he even SENT ME THE LINK to this post because he was pissed that she dumped him. I never searched for anything else before last night because I TRUSTED that this was the only link. Ran across the other link by accident. Who knew? I guess I know now.
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Old 10-31-2011, 02:48 PM   #85
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See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the panet.
I just knew where it was (or wasn't) going with them early on.

The oldest trick in the book is not letting them pay for stuff, etc. until they are fully on the hook. As well as withholding sex to make it look like you're really into them. The sooner the guys figure out the game the sooner they will help themselves.

And although I don't have an open relationship we occasionally play together and we have ground rules and I know what a disaster it can become when one doesn't respect them. We are four years in and they're still being respected but I haven't been that lucky in the past relationships where a threesome became a twosome.

And to be honest, with him bragging about what a playa he is yet not being able to seal the deal, I was suspecting him as gay.

I am here to tell you that there are much better fish in the sea and at least you found out now rather than later. Deal with your emotions and then open yourself up for another guy that who hopefully wont be such a douche. Live and learn.
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Well, here's the upside to all this too. Eventually, I will get this book pulled together that I've been writing. john makes great CONTENT and I'm grateful for that.

Anyone have connections to a good literary agent?
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Fixed your quote for you .....

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She doesn't want to be your next avatar! ;)
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Well I tried to delete the comment about content, realized it was unfair and engaging in mischief but it wont let me now for whatever reason. Sorry about that one.
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Gee, you think? We already know how dim you are, you don't need to prove it anymore.

Would be funny if she were a fake nick but I highly dought you're that smart.
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Yes we were open, but he wasn't honest and what made me so upset is that he's BRAGGING about keeping it from me on here. Not that I care what GFY thinks, but man, I feel like an idiot. I'm not blaming him cuz those are my own feelings. I know guys are dogs and it's hard to keep 'em on the porch. That's ok. But how does one misjudge character so completely? Someone like that I wouldn't even want to give the time of day to much less be friends with. And it doesn't matter if he ultimately got laid or not, the intent was there to have a relationship with her, not just bang her and go. If you have the intent for emotional attachment, then let me know dammit so I can deal with mine and we can be friends.



Exactly. I actually feel sorry for him that he DIDNT at least get laid and gods... the insecurity. I knew he had some but holy christ. I never saw that between he and I. She totally played him, but duh, she's a stripper. Apparently she's good at it. Definitely some instant karma going on there.



See that? Your comments in the other threads I was thinking "wow, what an ass," but you actually get it. LOL Jokes on me. Good job Maybe I'm just the suckiest judge of character on the planet.



I have more class than that.



I thought he WAS a nice guy. Certainly it wouldn't have gone on between us for three years if I didnt think that. This is emotional abuse. I'll get over it because I dont subscribe to the victim mentality, but when you get hit, it's still going to hurt for a bit. I commend him for not taking most of y'alls advice about "raisin a pimp hand." LOL But I'm an idiot. I should've known the lying and sneaky shit wouldn't stop with him hiding me from his dance teacher since she's delusional about him just like he was delusional about Mindy. I just had no clue how bad the self esteem was. Geez, I thought I was HELPING him with that too. Guess I suck in more than one way.



Tell me about it. I'm wondering how much footage he has of me. Put that together with the whole "when I'm mad at you I'll put all your photos and videos that I never asked permission to take on a web site under your name." Too bad some photographer in NY beat you to my domain when it became available john. Or is that really YOU Mr. Anderson? Ironic, no?



Yeah, I thought long and hard (::snicker:: - c'mon, you know you have a bazillion jokes for that!) about fueling any fires by posting, but I feel like such an idiot for not figuring it out sooner that I had to post something just for my own satisfaction. Especially when he even SENT ME THE LINK to this post because he was pissed that she dumped him. I never searched for anything else before last night because I TRUSTED that this was the only link. Ran across the other link by accident. Who knew? I guess I know now.
best of luck to you

very nice blog btw
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LOL But I'm an idiot.
An idiot is one thing you are not. Emotions and betrayed trust can mess with anyone's judgement.

I don't know you - and I haven't read your blog (I think someone mentioned it in this thread) - but you are well-spoken, very literate, and obviously intelligent. As well, if that is you pictured in your avatar, you also have a stunning pair of legs.

I sincerely doubt that that other woman is more attractive than you in any way, shape or form.
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As well, if that is you pictured in your avatar, you also have a stunning pair of legs.
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best of luck to you

very nice blog btw
Thanks Richard. I don't update it often enough.
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the best part of this thread was the white knights / forever alones falling over themselves to save their internet princess.
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That and camperdude going AWOL.
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I hate to be left hanging
It's as disappointing as a Nick Cage film, isn't it?
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