Why are some people simply assholes? A study in anger and revenge.

[Vjo]

This is the further adventures of a seven month old tiny kitten named Buddy and I vs Dickhead and The Cunt.

If you dont/cant read more than two lines, you know where the back button is. Thanks anyhow for your interest. I appreciate it. For the rest, maybe some of you are angry over things you CANNOT control. Read on..

So I get home from getting groc at 11:00 pm. The assholes are lights out by at least 10:00 pm. The house is fully dark. Cunty has to rise and shine at 5 am to make her 100K nurses salary. Yes sadly with all that money she is still a miserable cunt.

They are rich. I am dead poor. They have each other. I am alone. An old man, getting older and alone. I have ONE thing in my home life.. a little kitty named Buddy. It seems they are being so mean and unfair to me. No sense of right.

I am relieved it is lights out so now Buddy can run without worry he may go over there.. but fact is Buddy hasnt gone over there since the ONE time 2 weeks ago I posted about which caused The Cunt to have a shit fit. And she said I should commit Buddy to a lifetime of the leash...

The overwhelming consensus was she should be on a leash and Buddy should be leash free. Which I agree with.

It has been going great. Buddy stays with me and has not been going over there at all. MUCH to their dismay.

Suddenly the outdoor light goes on.. they heard me drive in. No other lights on at all in the house so I know he (or she or both) GOT UP and CREPT through the dark to the front kitchen window and are now peaking out at me in a totally dark house through the kitchen blinds to see if Buddy ran across the street. LOL If it wasnt so sad it would be funny.

The outdoor light is on about 3 mins then back off. It occurs to me that they did this when I left to get groceries as well 2 hours earlier.

For some reason this REALLY pisses me off.... for the first time in years.. hits me right in the stomach.

So first I am thinking revenge would be sweet and decide to look it up on the web. Frankly I used to have a Browning 20 gauge that you could not miss from 25 yards and I would like to put the bead..... (I will edit this out in advance)

For some reason this feels good imagining this. I would NEVER do this for the record, YET it feels good to imagine it. I am a victim of extreme sudden anger. As Psychologist Wayne Dyer would say, "I am NOT pulling my own strings"

So I look further and I find that revenge can be very satisfying due to premordial things in the brain BUT usually not without consequences that make things worse.

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First I went here..

http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-get-revenge/

How To Get Revenge

and read ..The Psychology of Revenge

that lead me here as I remember from reading the bible as a young man that "Vengeance is mine sayeth the lord"

http://bible.cc/romans/12-19.htm

Romans 12:19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord.

And I see the Bible def says basicly the above in many places.

Then I went here to get some quotes I could cling on to help my anger.

http://thinkexist.com/quotes/like/li.../175291/3.html

“Living well is the best revenge” George Herbert (English metaphysical Poet and Clergyman, 1593-1633)

“Revenge proves its own executioner.” John Ford

“Therein lies the defect of revenge: it's all in the anticipation; the thing itself is a pain, not a pleasure; at least the pain is the biggest end of it.” Mark Twain

“Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.” Isaac Friedmann

“There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.” Josh Billings (American Humorist, 1818-1885)

and my fav..

“Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” George Bernard Shaw (Irish literary Critic, Playwright and Essayist. 1925 Nobel Prize for Literature, 1856-1950)

I realized I am really just being intimidated by them which is WHAT they want, They are naturally mean and want to upset me. Nothing they can really do to me or Buddy.

So now I feel better and decide to take the high ground. I have never really done anything to these people yet they are simply assholes to me.

I have no problem with anyone else in the world yet my fate has put these people in the house closest to me.

“Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated.” George Bernard Shaw

and I realized they were intimidating me and the BEST thing I could do is to IGNORE them and live my own life.

Because going to their level will only reduce me as a person.

And this ended my journey and I feel better.

Yet I wonder WHY? What do they get out of it? Obviously if a lil kitty goes under your car for an instant and returns home NOONE in their right mind would care or even know.

As I said before, they stare OUT THE DOOR at friends or visitors when they (rarely) come over to visit me. For some reason they hate me yet I know it isnt me. It is the person living next to them.. that happens to be me.

Her father was one of the nastiest assholes in the county I have heard.

So I realize..

Some people are simply assholes. And there is nothing short of God, Karma or Distance you can do to change them.

Take time to thank your God that you have a good neighbor.

[epitome]

Fuck you, man. I'm not reading all of this fucking shit. Asshole.

Oh, wait. Maybe I should. ;-)

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by epitome

Fuck you, man. I'm not reading all of this fucking shit. Asshole.

Oh, wait. Maybe I should. ;-)

LOL Good point man. I guess I wrote it mostly for myself and all you angry guys.

Anyone who has an asshole in their life they seriously are contemplating revenge on.. read it. Anger is not a good thing. It helped me. I can live with these assholes again.

Basicly I found this is a VERY common problem in our society. TONS of asshole neighbors and people wanting revenge.

[Vjo]

Cliff notes: Baldy and Skank (aka Dickhead and The Cunt) LOL I have nicknames were mean to me again and I AM a nice guy DAMN IT

It is the INJUSTICE of it where basicly they shoud DIE for being mean to me.

I think I am angry again

But with the help of great minds and quotes I found peace.. The short version..

[georgeyw]

You sound like you have a few screws loose.

[Vjo]

I guess the bottom line is.. they had me served with eviction papers 3 times over my last cat Lucky running in their yard. These assholes are chomping at the bit to find any reasion to get rid of me.

So they play hard ball. Also got sucker punched hard in the temple (if you missed the other thread) over my last cat Lucky. So this is hard ball.

[Goldmaniacs]

only losers forgive

Originally Posted by Vjo

Cliff notes: Baldy and Skank (aka Dickhead and The Cunt) LOL I have nicknames were mean to me again and I AM a nice guy DAMN IT

It is the INJUSTICE of it where basicly they shoud DIE for being mean to me.

I think I am angry again

But with the help of great minds and quotes I found peace.. The short version..

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by georgeyw

You sound like you have a few screws loose.

read the next post ^^ George. But thx for your opinion. That shows it is more than lights off and on.

[Vjo]

I have already rolled in the middle of the street in 2004 with this guy. I guess only a few of you read my other thread. I understand. It was also long.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by Goldmaniacs

only losers forgive

Seriously?

I'll tell ya. Sometimes I think if I went terminly ill tomorrow someone(s) may go with me. That is real anger.

But I realize that is silly. YetI guess they are serious about no cats in their yard.

Also, this is a mobile home park so they dont even own the land. Yes Vjo is trailer trash.

But I have about a 1/4 acre lot. Beautiful lot I planted all in. Own a nice double wide It is better living than 60% on this board I gaurantee you.

But yeah, they dont even own the lot and there are CATS running all over hell.

BTW FUCK YOU George. YOU sound like a piece of SHIT

I see you riding everyone. What a twitty peace of shit you are. Good thing my father faught in WW2 and saved your old man's ASS! Fucking SUCK my dick pal!

LOL I need a lil peace, check out the cat crossing the road..

[Vjo]

BTW GEORGIE BOY if you cant piss with the big boys next time just keep your rude comments to yourself. It shows a lack of good upbringing.

If you cant say nothing good, KEEP your YAP SHUT asshole. Cause I WILL fuck with you forever since YOU threw the first punch.

Yeah maybe I do have a screw loose. I do haVE A super BAD TEMPER FOR SURE,

And fuck it I am not gonna edit that

[Vjo]

I also am more loved here than most so I can get by with it. It is all entertainment.

But George thinks ME a guy with An Eng degree from the U of MN and Three Years from two Vo-Techs in Eng has a screw loose?

Some wanker down under who hasnt done shit OFF the web.

Fuck you pal. How rude a comment was that.

I pour my heart out, take 2 hours to write an intersting piece (to some) and you greet me like that?

Way to have the spirit of the board in mind DICKHEAD. Show some compassion you (I want to say your country but I like most of them except YOU) piece of SHIT

NEVER fucken liked you seriously.

[georgeyw]

Originally Posted by Vjo

read the next post ^^ George. But thx for your opinion. That shows it is more than lights off and on.

It reads like the ramblings of a mad man.

Perhaps you need to find somewhere else to live...

[wdsguy]

This use to be a business forum.

[Vjo]

I also dont lean on ANY woman at 55.

George, There are people on this board who have offered me something you prob dont know.

Love.

In the form of loans AND grants.

They KNOW I am a good man. They take me at my word. And in MN my word is good.

They have been paid back AND I am having a record month.

So I may be slow but I am ahead of some of you assholes.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by wdsguy

This use to be a business forum.

Still is. I sold domains to about 20 diff people. What have you done.

It is more a BS forum where people work their stuff in.

I do BIZ with the biggest brokers in the game. I have been doing biz since 1996 pal.

Excuse me if I post something about my life. Fuck you.

ANOTHER dickhead who doesnt get it.

This IS my thread. I will post WHAT FUCKING EVER.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by georgeyw

It reads like the ramblings of a mad man.

Perhaps you need to find somewhere else to live...

Dude I CANT afford to! Did you read the fucking post? I said I had planted 1/4 acre deushbag! WHY should I move. Great advice their mr genious.

Im pissed George. That is why it reads that way perhaps. Did you see ANGER and REVENGE in the title?

Should I have sugar coated it?

It is MEANT to be someone interesting to read because my education and writing hundreds if not thousands of papers allows me to write both interesting and factual.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by wdsguy

This use to be a business forum.

More like a hand holding forum.

How do I do this?

Where can I get that?

Plenty of biz being done.

Just that noone wants to hand hold anyone anymore.

[Vjo]

BTW George, Let me pull your ass to the street and punch you HARD in the old man TEMPLE (brain swelling) with glasses (went flying 25 feet) over your cat and you WILL have nicknames for me too.

Hard living up here but some things are still right and some are wrong. And TRUST me this guy should be hung by his nuts.

BUT, I am now peace loving. As I said in my orig post which I dont think George even read.

[Vjo]

In fact all time here is a waste. WHY do you think noone posts here but sig whores?

Shit takes time.

Not saying posting is not worth it. Look at some of my threads. But this whole it used to be a biz board...

Fuck you. One god damn thread.

If you still need your hand held you better look at a new occupation.

I post for FUN. I have EARNED that.

You can post for biz. I wont shit in your thread. You dont shit in mine.

Basic agreement I think is fair. Some people like my threads.

[Vjo]

I could call people out ALL FUCKEN DAY cause I have been around but I dont.

I could say "you suck" and "that sucks" but I dont.

I NEVER am RUDE to anyone first. I am always polite. Minnesota nice we call it.

I have a sense of fairness maybe because I am alone and lean on NOONE unlike most on this board.

But I am tough as nails, Dont underestimate me. Dont think I am weak cause I want to find peace.

I have delivered 30,000+ pizzas night shift in the city! Some to bigger, meaner fucks than on this board. And I am still around.

Anyhow, most of you are fabulous but Georgie pulled my string.

"Fuck that fucker" as Serge once told me.

"They cant smell their own shit." as Rick Schwartz once told me. Guess I can name drop. Why not. I have done BIZ as the guy I GUESS thinks I never have.

Fuck you George. You still suck.

[georgeyw]

Originally Posted by Vjo

Dude I CANT afford to! Did you read the fucking post? I said I had planted 1/4 acre deushbag! WHY should I move. Great advice their mr genious.

Im pissed George. That is why it reads that way perhaps. Did you see ANGER and REVENGE in the title?

Should I have sugar coated it?

It is MEANT to be someone interesting to read because my education and writing hundreds if not thousands of papers allows me to write both interesting and factual.

Wah? Are you serious?

Your writing skills are abhorrent to say the least.

If this is not a joke, I suggest you at the very least get the fuck out of the place for a weekend.

[Vjo]

And yeah soon my song sig will appear. Gonna take this to 1000 views!

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by georgeyw

Wah? Are you serious?

Your writing skills are abhorrent to say the least.

If this is not a joke, I suggest you at the very least get the fuck out of the place for a weekend.

I am an Engineer not an ENGL major.

George, this is SOMEWHAT a joke but you ARE rude to people. You are. And I called you out.

Pizza guys will do that.

[Vjo]

I watched you slap around everyone else. Now they are gonna watch me slap you around.

Fairness. That is where I am coming from. Fairness.

If I bitch slap someone (which I never do) they should have balls to mix it up.

You bitch slapped me. We mixed it up.

mano o mano

I could post for a week straight and make more money as ALL my stuff runs on auto pilot. If you WANT to fuck with someone, please choose someone else other than me.

Fact is there are only about 3 guys now days who I dont think are courtious. By that I mean who are jackasses to everyone. And frankly I cant even think of em. But you are one who snipes at people.

They like to be an asshole. To everyone. Kind of like my neighbor.

George, do you relate to Baldy? Are you you a natural asshole and that is why we collide!!!

Just like me and Baldy. Water and oil. Ying and yang!

My heart is so pure.. I once fed strays in -20 for years.. I have tons of friends.

I am a good person. So that tells me that you are prob an asshole.

[georgeyw]

Originally Posted by Vjo

I am an Engineer not an ENGL major.

George, this is SOMEWHAT a joke but you ARE rude to people. You are. And I called you out.

Pizza guys will do that.

Right....

You are most definitely a nut case.

[Vjo]

And BTW respect the country you make your money from.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by georgeyw

Right....

You are most definitely a nut case.

Well unless you are a trained Psychiatrist then nut case is relative.

But thanks for diagnosing me in 15 posts.

Besides, looks like you are the one reading my thread.

Look you can be an asshole. It is ok here. But I can also call ya on it IF you call me on it first LOL

I am like a time bomb noone wants to touch lol.

I love you all.

Who responds to every poster (usually friendly) in every thread and says (usually) only good things?

Me

[Vjo]

Now those of you in the US. Please, this am when you head to the bathroom please think of my neighbor (Baldy and Skank aka Dickhead and The Cunt)

Thank you.

And leave poor George alone for pete's sake.

Sorry George. I may have over reacted. It has happened before.

[Vjo]

Should I buy this assholes .com domain name? His name like billsmith.com It is still available.

I wont post names but I should buy his domain. Fucken guy would have a shit fit if he found out. It is NOT a common name. LOL

I would redirect 100% to the gayest site on the web! LOL

He is too much of a meathead to have bought it or know how for that matter. He is just into sitting home all day as The Cunt goes off and makes big money. Keeps his dirtbag ass out of the factory even though she has no looks.

Fucken guy doesnt know who he is dealing with

He can beat my ass in the street but I could ruin his ass if I wanted to really do it.

Fucken YT has a ton of nasty shit you can do that I wont even touch. Or post.

[Vjo]

Seriously. She is 6'2 230 or more and butt ugly. He is 5'6 140 bald with a SERIOUS short man's complex. Thus why the wrestler.

And THUS Why they are so angry. Why they NEVER go anywhere. EVER.

Ladies, would you SETTLE for 5'6 if you were 6'2. Of course not. But you have to cause you (she) are butt ugly and basicly a German Battle axe.

Guys, would you settle for a babe 100LBs heavier than you and EIGHT inches taller IF she brought home $100K?

Of course you would LOL You fucken bastards.

But they both SETTLED on each other and are MISERABLE because of it. That is my theory.

[Vjo]

But the whole point was I am going to take the high road. Sorry for letting George interfere with the thread. I couldnt quite let it go being called whatever he called me

It started as a serious attempt to deal with anger and revenge.

The point is, you can NOT deal with assholes. The best way is to ignore them (Guess I didnt follow that advice last two hours with George ) and get the law involved if they overstep their bounds.

It is sad not everyone is nice, like me, (a sweety ) and we all could have friendly neighbors.

Yes, I would be the BEST neighbor you ever had.

VERY easy going. Super friendly

[12clicks]

All this because the house across the street has a motion detector on their outside light.

[Vjo]

People love me. Always have.

But I have a side (a few people all my life) that has always hated me...

Can we talk

True. Girls used to tell me "I was different" Could be losing my father at 11 made me more sensitive to assholes and macho bs.

Then they would fuck me cause I was good looking with my baby face and dimples in ONE cheek I got when ANOTHER guy sucker punched me when I was in 6th grade. True! My jaw blew up for a week but perhaps it was worth it.

Guys have ALWAYS been jealous of me.

Can we talk?

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by 12clicks

All this because the house across the street has a motion detector on their outside light.

LOL Hey buddy. Tuuschey! No it isnt that simple unfortunately. They do sneek around in the dark. I kid you not.

[Vjo]

I am going to get a sig of songs up and maybe tell another TWO stories of yet ANOTHER TWO guys coming after me to kick my ass...

Both times waaaay off the wall and 100% true. Actually I could tell stories all day LOL

A diff buddy saved me both times.

I am loved and buddies have always saved me Some of them from this board lately

Coming up cause it is MY thread.



God this thread needed a pic

[Vjo]

OK it is spring of 1974. 1:30 am.. I am home after being out getting high and going upstairs to bed. Next door is a juicer party in small town central MN going strong. I was not at the party. I was more into herb and he was more a juicer at this point tho we were old friends.

Suddenly BANG. I am jolted out of sleep. Within 20 feet from my head. A guy goes into our tree on the boulevard at 80 mph. The car swings around backwards from impact in a small circle and hits our front house step.

I run down, guy is dead at the scene still in the car. 16 yo kid. Drunk from the party.

6 years later, 1980, my 5th year class reunion.. dead kids younger brother burst in to the nightclub at 1:00 am and wants to fight me because the guy hit OUR tree. I kid you not.

A friend who was sizable escorted me out..

The dumb brother later became chief of police in that town. Byt then my ass was long gone

[DarkJedi]

set their house on fire

[Vjo]

Ok one more bedtime story of course true.

When I was about 16 (surprise) I had a really cool car. Fast Camaro. Like the 67 Camaro I posted but white.

Guys were super jealous.

I was good looking, got girls, and mom bought me a car...

So one day we are out cruising in the white 67. My juicer neighbor is riding shotgun. Guy named Perry (the guy who saved me at the nightclub) is riding right rear and a guy named Stubby is behind me.

Suddenly an asshole cuts us off, jumps out of his car and is back to mine in a FLASH! He sticks his arm in the open window (6") to get my door open and he is gonna kill me. Some farm kid who is jealous.

I froze expecting my ass to get nailed. I was 16, he was 19 and pissed...

Suddenly he freezes. I am like wtf. I look and the window is up to 1" from closed with his arm in. Stubby has his foot on the window crank just pressuring it

Stubby says" you better run along or I will take your arm off"

He says ok and he lets his arm free. Never seen him again.



Stubby was a cool 16 year old kid. Big for his age and street savvy.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by DarkJedi

set their house on fire

Hey buddy Thats what I want to hear

Guys who have been in essence victimized by bullys know the feeling and hate you build up.

He is LUCKY I am NOT a nut case. LOL I mean why piss people off. Whatever happened to good neighbor relations.

He would rather have all this hate (in front of their 3 year old girl) than just allow the damn cat to MAYBE go on the pavement under their car that they dont even own.

He is an asshole and he better hope biz stays good.

(edited under the grounds that it may incriminate me)

But then again I SORT of believe in the afterlife

Would murder or arson be ok?*^ Can I still get in? I dont think so.

High road. High road

* Kidding. For entertainment and to help those "suffering" the onslaught of a bullying neighbor who is simply a good old fashioned asshole. To allow the opressed to dream of revenge but please, never act on it.

Mark Twain knew best

^ Or if you do act on it dont get caught lol Cause SOME fucking guys NEED to get punched.

So when is God gonna deliver the Karma to their ass as the bible says?

[Phoenix]

sounds like you and your neighbours both have crazy neighbours

[Vjo]

once again, this is a trailer park

cats walk through trailer parks



it is as American OR Canadian as Apple Pie and Maple Syrup

Only PUSSIES and guys who NEED to get their asses kicked pick on old guys who have lil kittys.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

sounds like you and your neighbours both have crazy neighbours

Actually I am prob 50 times crazier than him I suppose but he is 50 times a bigger asshole than me.

Where is George Carlin to do some asshole jokes

I am TRUE Minnesota NICE and proud of it. He is from Wisconsin! Boooooo!!!!!!

True

I would welcome you with true hospitality. All of you. Seriously. He is a natural jackass from Wisconsin down by Chicago.

He married the biggest Cunt in the county and became my neighbor. What a fucken pair. He looks up to her. 100LBs and 8 inches. WTF!

And they are both CRANKY! Tho she is worse cause she earns the money. He isnt that pissed anymore casue he sits home and spends the dumb Cunt's Money in return for his wrestling champ cock. And a house boy for her.

He is mighty dick! Short man's complex since he was 15 prob.

Wait till I get my dig movie/pic cam. They are only $80 I see.

[Vjo]

And they are both soooooooo jealous cause I stay home all day.

THAT is PROB it from the beginning.. 1999. Back then he was REALLY pissed cause he had to work in a printing press. Shit work. He would STARE at my window from his deck with serious HATE and I didnt even know him. Seriously. I could see him but he couldnt see me tho he thought I might be looking which I was.

Oh that fucker is ugly. And hate. I KNEW I had future problems from that day in July 1999. He has a face only a mother could love. But the hate.. Like cell mates with Manson or something. i mean hate you can feel across the street.

I won 50 Gs that year and he moved in. I would almost swap the 50 to get rid of him. But not quite.

Back before 1999 his lot was a field and for 12 years my cats ran in the open field since 1987. I have seniority big time.

Anyone else got a jealous asshole next door cause you stay home all day and I guess they think with my (our) finger up our ass all day.

[Vjo]

First encounter.. 2002..

Friday.. 4:00 pm. I am at the community mailboxes. He drives up just off work from the printing press shit job to get his mail. oh oh

He comes around, I say, "hi" he says, "nothing" grabs his mail is right back in his car in a flash (goes around me) and floors it, squeeling out and quickly doing 60mph in a 10 mph zone over speed bumps with kids, dogs, cats anything could have been killed.

He is trying to give me a message I guess. He doesnt like me.

Right then I knew I had an angry nut job on my hands. The guy fucken hates me. Why? In two years I would be on my back in the middle of the street. That story has been told..

So like a bastard he remains obcessed with me.

He only open his drapes, viewing the road and me across the road, two inches so he can watch my every move all day....

He is the nut case my friends.

I put up with it since 1999. Time the world knows.

[Vjo]

Second Encounter..

In early 2004 they had a fucken loud wind chime. Now I admit I should have left it but I went over and asked them very nicely if maybe they could take it down cause it was really obnoctious. At first they took it down. Then it went back up in a week.

Within 3 months I would be on my back in the middle of the street. Should have never gone over there I guess. You know old Baldy stewed on that.

[L-Pink]

Originally Posted by Vjo

They KNOW I am a good man. They take me at my word. And in MN my word is good.

What Vjo says, Vjo does. I'll take his word anyday

.

[Vjo]

Anyhow them are the facts. Good luck with your neighbors. No big deal. I can handle it.

Let this thread die. Fine by me.

Thanks for reading it and send all your negative vibes to The Bald man and the Skankstress

aka Baldy and Skank

aka Dickhead (get it baldy .. dickhead, his head looks like a dick) and The Cunt.

Goodnight I am out of here.

[iSpyCams]

I read enough to see that you:

1) own a cat
2) post bible verses on an adult webmaster board
3) make ridiculously long posts that have nothing to do with anything anyone cares about
4) reply to your own posts.

If you are a dude you should be aware that you sound like a hormonal crazy lady.

If you are a chick you should have girlfriends you can whine about this shit to.

[Vjo]

Originally Posted by L-Pink

What Vjo says, Vjo does. I'll take his word anyday

.

Hey LP good to see you. Thanks man. No big deal just blowing off steam. I have been feeling their hate for a long time and just thoiught I would write about it.

Been up all night. Total waste of time as chatboards always are if you type more than 3 lines (as Serge said)

But I got it said. Maybe their house will burn down now or something. hehe On it's own, not by me.

I wish I had a pic of Buddy. Who could be mean in front of their three year old over a cute lil kitty.

Teach the kid to hate kittens for pete's sake.

Oh well so goes life. Some things we cant control.

Gonna have some eggrolls and a Bud or three b4 bed. Make it all better.