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Female roommate gives apartment key to boyfriend!
I have a female roommate and it just a "roommate" thing and nothing else. Before my roommate moved in I made it very clear under no circumstances are guests allowed. I have had roommates in the past have friends over and they stole my shit that's why I have this policy.
While I was out to lunch my roommate gave her new boyfriend the key to my apartment to pick something up. While I was out he entered my apartment by himself with her key! I didn't know she did this and she asked my permission after he already went into my apartment! I can't imagine what would have happened if this stranger entered my apartment while I was home! I would have been freaked the fuck out and would have thought my apartment was being broken into. I called her and chewed her out, I don't know if I should kick her out? I made it very clear to her before she moved in I have a no guest policy! What she did is far worse than just having someone over while she was home. Giving a guy a key to my place while she wasn't even with him is super fucked up |
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Have you met the guy before?
If so, big fucking deal.
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Since you made it clear to her from the start, it's really bad, I doubt she'd do it again though, unless you were away on vacation
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Give your key to a stranger when she's home. ![]() Just kidding. Kick her to the curb. .
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youre overreacting. probably jealous that she's got a boyfriend and you don't.
get a cat or something. |
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sooner or later all roommates will break this and other rules. best to just not have them.
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No guests is a pretty unreasonable rule to begin with
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Your house, your rules.
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Give her a rump fuck for discipline
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LOL people don't fucking listen.
I tried out an assistant a few months ago. I told rule #1, absolutely NO behind-the-scenes pictures. At the end of the day he mentions that he shot some behind-the-scenes pictures on his cell and wanted to know if I wanted him to text them to me. SMFH ![]() |
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You have to know if you make a rule that is as crazy as not allowing someone to have guests over they are going to break it sooner or later.
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I'd ask her for a bj.
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Consider the likelihood that she talked to this guy about how you are such a controlling dick for not letting her have friends over and so when he entered your house he was thinking "this guy obviously wants to fuck my girlfriend". My advice is to toss out any open milk containers as well as your toothbrush.
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yup if I were you I'd kick her out then live alone. You are asking way too much from people. It's one thing to say you don't want them to have friends over to hangout and drink and such but to tell them they can't have a normal life cause you are a dick is going beyond. If you aren't charging her much for rent then you should have np paying for it all in the future. I'm with others and think you find her attractive and are more upset she has a bf coming around.
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That is what you get for thinking a women is rational or not self centered, if you find one who is, marry her.
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Get a disguise and come in while she's home. Tell her to strip and piss on her head and then leave. Tell her you don't know who it was as you never hand your key out and then change the locks.
![]() Last time I think I had a roommate I was like 25 as my best friend and myself dumped our girlfriends within a month of each other so had a bachelor pad for a bit which was a pretty good time filled with random girls/parties. Had a girl from Venezuela stay with me last year for like 2 1/2 months which was cool but that's probably the most I could handle few months here or there as I'm pretty clean for a guy and too old now to deal with people annoying me or fucking with my shit. If I'm dropping a dong in it my tolerance level goes up but if just a roommate too much headache for a few extra bucks. ![]() |
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I've never been a dick to her. I don't have people over because they steal shit and women are known to date deadbeat losers and I don't want some douche mooching for a free place to live
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knowing what a hassle roommates are...why have one?
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Dave repeat out loud 3 times what you just wrote here. Then give her written notice to vacate in 30 days.
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Is she hot?
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I think you should consider not to have roomates. I would never rent a room, when I was young, if I couldn't have friends over. Seems a bit totalitarian to me.
Good luck with your hot young roommate you only wish to fuck. |
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Do you realize any crazy abusive cunt who lives with you regardless of the arrangement can simply make up a false allegation or just say "I am in fear for my safety" and you will be legally required to move out? Then the only way to get her out will be to evict her and that can take months. Never entangle your life with one of these abusive psycho modern American females unless there is a really good reason.
I suggest not kicking her out but to develop some really disgusting personal habitats like smoking cigs, not showering, leaving the door open when you piss so she can hear it, being a general slob, and listening to Slayer, etc. Plus ALWAYS be home so she has no privacy. She should move out within a month. |
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The no guests policy is a little weird but it's your house, your rules. That rule was obviously ok when she moved in, but now she has demonstrated that she has no intention of sticking to it.
If I had rules and a roommate demonstrated that they had no intention of following them, they'd be out. And then I'd never have a roommate again. I've never had one to begin with because, fuck that.
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Did you put that rule in writing when she moved in?
If not you may have some trouble getting rid of her. |
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Tell her to make like a tree and kindly sign the agreement you wrote up.
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You need to write the producers of the Big Bang Theory and kindly ask for a copy of Sheldon's room-mate contract
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if it happens again, you'll need to look for new premises to live" Everyone's allowed an error of judgement once, especially as she could have a viable reason for asking her boyfriend to collect something for her ![]()
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This!
You're a grown ass adult, what is wrong with someone having guests?
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I have multiple reasons
I live in the living room I have no door to close and have limited privacy or door to protect my stuff from being stolen I've allowed my roommates have guests in the past 100% of the time stuff went missing! My house is quiet and when they have guest allot of the time they are loud and make allot of noise Boyfriends come over spend the night, allot of the time they never leave and stay over frequently which makes a 3rd roommate who never pays rent! I've had allot of problems in the past where there druggy loser out of work boyfriend moves in without my permission and eats my food, uses electricity and takes up space and refuses to leave On some occasions I've had female roommates who would have abusive boyfriends and they would constantly fight it was loud and happened frequently All roommates in the past where we had the agreement of no guests never had a problem and they would never have anyone over accept for this one. In the past the ones who didn't have guests I had no issues with. There friends would meet them outside and they would leave and do there thing. |
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I've always got along with her I go out of my way to be friendly to her. This is the first incident where we had an issue so that conversation with her boyfriend would have never happened. I have 1 rule and 1 rule only no guests not a big deal, she knew the 1 rule before moving in and said she didn't have a problem with it
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I would rather not having a roommate but I can't afford right now to live 100% on my own.
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Why did she "ask permission" after it was done? Sounds either you ask before or keep it a secret if it is done. Am I missing the logic here?
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It is not crazy, in fact it is relatively common. OP said that he charges lower rent because of that (so the roommate gets something out of it as well - cheaper rent, while owner gets no guest policy, win win if both parties agree).
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My guess would be 1st most popular reason - money, second - not being bored (lets say some people are lonely and like to have a roommate). But of course money is the most common reason, strange to hear someone asking that
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I think he already answered - higher chances of theft. Plus it is easier on your mind when you know only 1 person is in your house at any given moment than that it may be 10 unknowns hanging out in your house.
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I don't know why she asked me afterwards. She claimed she gave him the key to my apartment and apparently she was going to ask permission but he decided amongst himself to enter my apartment before permission was granted
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I don't think that's a bad rule. I stayed at hotels where guest weren't allowed after a certain time. Most residential hotels have strict no guest policies. Allot of ads on Craigslist have allot more rules like time allowed in apartment from x time to x time, no kitchen privileges etc which I think are ridiculous.
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OP's living situation is sounding stranger and stranger
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