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Lee · 11-24-2004, 06:14 PM

No words we say can possibly fill the void, but you really are in our thoughts.

Oh and a big thank you to the mod who deleted the trolls.

jonesy · 11-24-2004, 06:19 PM

Sarah

i hope this helps.

It is fairly common for people in your situation to feel somewhat abandoned or alone - know that it isn't the case, and that friends and family are there for you - they might be silent because they just can't think of anything to say and want to give you as much space and support as possible to grieve in your own way. everyone is feeling the same loss.

sometimes they can develop a sense of guilt for not being able to say anything that can make a difference.

This guilt can compound to the point where people close to you might actually pull away, or seem to, in your time of need, because they are simply embarrassed and uncomfortable and feel guilty that they have nothing to say...either that or they will say what they think is a good rationalization that will put things in perspective, which I'm sure you will at some point get pretty tired of in spite of your appreciation of their attempts to help

These platitudes may get to be so tiresome that you might begin to pull away from well-wishers to avoid such discussion, which is totally ok - most people will interpret this as your wish to be left alone or not speak about it...

My condolences to you and your families.

pushpills · 11-24-2004, 06:22 PM

Very sad to hear, a real tragedy. My thoughts are with you hun.

Jensen · 11-24-2004, 06:25 PM

just read the post and to be hounest, I don't know what to write so I'll just keep it simple.. R.I.P. Marc

Harmon · 11-24-2004, 06:25 PM

That's horrible. I am very sorry for your loss.

sean416 · 11-24-2004, 06:36 PM

My most sincere condolences. Keep your head up sweety.

MickeyG · 11-24-2004, 06:42 PM

what a horrible thing to happen, im very sorry for your loss.

sherie · 11-24-2004, 06:48 PM

My heart goes out to you Sarah. I know how much you loved your husband. I don't know what else to say, other than my thoughts and prayers are with you and if you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to get in touch.

All my love to you and your families. You are a strong person and I know you will prevail. Of course these are only words, but you will get through this and hopefully not alone.

XO

Far-L · 11-24-2004, 06:48 PM

Condolences. May the joy you shared keep your spirit together in the days ahead, when you will need stregnth to deal most, and forever bring love to your heart.

fantasycontent · 11-24-2004, 06:56 PM

wow i am really sorry to hear about that....my thoughts and prayers go out to you!!

Steen2 · 11-24-2004, 06:57 PM

Sarah, I am so sorry to hear this.

My best wishes to you and your family for this Thanksgiving.

hilly · 11-24-2004, 06:57 PM

Sorry, and my best wishes.

TheGoldenChild · 11-24-2004, 07:11 PM

I am at a loss for words-
I hope you find peace and comfort throughout this ordeal.
I am choked up reading about your tragic loss...

you'll be in my prayers

aSStig · 11-24-2004, 07:17 PM

my condolence Sarah . . . . .

i feel sorry to hear that . . . .

TheGoldenChild · 11-24-2004, 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sextoyking
Sarah,

I just got in the store - sent you an email, hope you got it??

Dang, I am sooooo sorry for the loss of your husband. You are across the pond and not near your family right now. I know you loved him very very much. Gosh for that to happen at 45 is such a dire shame

I will find your # and call you soon, please let me know if I can do anything at all.. If you need to fly home now, we will take care of it.

I think your voip # is at the office, will call rick, if not call me if you want too..

To one of the best people I have ever had the pleasure of working with in over 10 yrs online - Sorry my love.

You are a real "mensche" Todd.
That's an incredibly generous act of kindness.

Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving-

Todd

mary34d · 11-24-2004, 07:19 PM

i know i have be off the boards lately, but i want to help, let me know how. (i am not good with death)

silent moan · 11-24-2004, 07:21 PM

sad to hear that.....

my condolence and prayers are with you.....

be strong Sarah

AWW - Kevin · 11-24-2004, 07:27 PM

I am so very sorry to hear that !

The most sincere condolences from me !

Spunky · 11-24-2004, 07:31 PM

My deepest condolences Sarah

BVF · 11-24-2004, 07:31 PM

I wish I had a wife like you. Especially if you were cleaning out his leg ulcers.

He was lucky to have you

OzMan · 11-24-2004, 07:36 PM

Sarah,

Although I haven't met you I know that you are more than strong enough to deal with this loss even if it feels like your whole world just caved in right now. He will always be with you and you can see him in your dreams.

SinBucks · 11-24-2004, 07:37 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jay_StandAhead · 11-24-2004, 07:38 PM

deepest condolences sarah

Jer · 11-24-2004, 07:45 PM

OMG, Sarah, I'm so sorry

My condolences

Rest in Peace Marc

11-24-2004, 07:48 PM

I am so sorry. Please feel better and always remember the love you 2 shared. You are a great wife for being by his side at all times.

My condolences.

WebGemsHosting · 11-24-2004, 07:55 PM

Im so sorry for your loss, Sarah.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kristian · 11-24-2004, 07:57 PM

Sarah,

Those are the saddest words I have ever read. I know you only as a name on gfy and yet I'm shocked and upset for your loss. Right now you need friends and family to help you. I hope you can go to them, or they can come to you.

I'm not an especially religious person, but I'll say a prayer for you tonight. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kristian

Ron_Artest · 11-24-2004, 08:16 PM

Sorry to hear that but now that makes you available. Would it be to soon to ask you out on some wild orgy?

Femme Fa'tale · 11-24-2004, 08:19 PM

"Courage, it would seem, is nothing less than the power to overcome danger, misfortune, fear, injustice, while continuing to affirm inwardly that life with all its sorrows is good; that everything is meaningful even if in a sense beyond our understanding; and that there is always tomorrow."

By Dorothy Thompson

Marcus Aurelius · 11-24-2004, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ron_Artest
Sorry to hear that but now that makes you available. Would it be to soon to ask you out on some wild orgy?

troll #3 come on down.

LittleMack · 11-24-2004, 08:21 PM

Your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!

Evil Chris · 11-24-2004, 08:23 PM

Sarah, I had learned of this on another board, but only read your post for the first time now.

Heartfelt condolences from both Funbrunette and myself.
You poor girl... Please be strong if you can.

Bob Saget · 11-24-2004, 08:24 PM

take care girl!

Mutt · 11-24-2004, 08:28 PM

as somebody else said above Sarah I only know you as a name on GFY and that you work for Todd but my heart is heavy for you nonetheless - and for you husband. sincere condolense to all concerned.

$5 submissions · 11-24-2004, 08:31 PM

My deepest condolences to you and Marc's family. May he rest in peace.

videoxpix · 11-24-2004, 08:36 PM

Heartfelt condolences to you & Mark's family. You are not alone.

WebTitan · 11-24-2004, 08:37 PM

wow, that is a shame...i wish you well

TheButcher · 11-24-2004, 08:39 PM

I am very sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. If there is anyway I can help please do not hesitate to let me know.

Rankings · 11-24-2004, 08:41 PM

My heart goes out to you.

quiet · 11-24-2004, 08:42 PM

this is the saddest thing i've ever read on this board. i'm so sorry Sarah.

JakeR · 11-24-2004, 08:42 PM

You have our prayers sarah

Easton · 11-24-2004, 08:44 PM

my sincere condolences during this tough time

Odin88 · 11-24-2004, 08:44 PM

Sorry to hear indeed. Wish you well.

Braincash Fred · 11-24-2004, 08:46 PM

Everytime I read a sad story like this it makes me feel that I should enjoy every second of my life, my friend and my familly.
You never knows when something bad like this can happen and change your world...

quiet · 11-24-2004, 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Braincash Fred
Everytime I read a sad story like this it makes me feel that I should enjoy every second of my life, my friend and my familly.
You never knows when something bad like this can happen and change your world...

i completely agree.

brav · 11-24-2004, 08:51 PM

I am so sorry about your loss sarah. Sounds like it was so sudden. My prayers will go out to you and your family.

MuleScrote · 11-24-2004, 08:55 PM

Very sad news indeed.

All I can do is send my love and wish you the strength to cope with such a tremendous loss.

Bobbiekey · 11-24-2004, 08:56 PM

Sarah, I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

There are no words that I can say that would ease your pain. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to you. *hugs*

Ron · 11-24-2004, 09:06 PM

Sarah,

We never spoke eachother, we dont know eachother and i didnt know Marc. I even dont post here much but i wanted to give my deepest condolences to you and marc's family.

I know how much pain yoiu have now. I saw my father dying for my eyes when i whas 20, and 2 weeks later my girlfriend died in a car accident. Its now 15 years ago but still feels like it happened yesterday.

One day you will wake up and notice that the sad feeling is replaced with a feeling of rest and good memories. This takes time, a very long time. Some people will say after a cpl of weeks/month to get over it now but thats completly nonsense. Theres no time for, some do it in a year, some in 10 years and some even longer. But you will always miss them.

Only thing i can say sarah is, take all the time you need to recover, even when it takes a very long time.

My english isnt that perfect but i hope its to read and understandable...
Again, my deepest condelences to you and marcs family...

Take care,

Ron

minimouse · 11-24-2004, 09:10 PM

Hi Sarah,

Were deeply sorry for your loss.

Minimouse & Jackson

11-24-2004, 06:19 PM	#352
jonesy Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 6,688	Sarah i hope this helps. It is fairly common for people in your situation to feel somewhat abandoned or alone - know that it isn't the case, and that friends and family are there for you - they might be silent because they just can't think of anything to say and want to give you as much space and support as possible to grieve in your own way. everyone is feeling the same loss. sometimes they can develop a sense of guilt for not being able to say anything that can make a difference. This guilt can compound to the point where people close to you might actually pull away, or seem to, in your time of need, because they are simply embarrassed and uncomfortable and feel guilty that they have nothing to say...either that or they will say what they think is a good rationalization that will put things in perspective, which I'm sure you will at some point get pretty tired of in spite of your appreciation of their attempts to help These platitudes may get to be so tiresome that you might begin to pull away from well-wishers to avoid such discussion, which is totally ok - most people will interpret this as your wish to be left alone or not speak about it... My condolences to you and your families. __________________ . Shooting Bikini Girls

11-24-2004, 06:36 PM	#356
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11-24-2004, 06:48 PM	#358
sherie Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 7,020	My heart goes out to you Sarah. I know how much you loved your husband. I don't know what else to say, other than my thoughts and prayers are with you and if you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to get in touch. All my love to you and your families. You are a strong person and I know you will prevail. Of course these are only words, but you will get through this and hopefully not alone. XO __________________ AIM sherierocks ICQ 127-296-286 Skype traffichor

11-24-2004, 06:48 PM	#359
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11-24-2004, 06:14 PM	#351
Lee Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Kernow Posts: 2,977	No words we say can possibly fill the void, but you really are in our thoughts. Oh and a big thank you to the mod who deleted the trolls.

11-24-2004, 06:22 PM	#353
pushpills Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: CHICAGO Posts: 3,700	Very sad to hear, a real tragedy. My thoughts are with you hun.

11-24-2004, 06:25 PM	#354
Jensen Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Norway Posts: 3,790	just read the post and to be hounest, I don't know what to write so I'll just keep it simple.. R.I.P. Marc

11-24-2004, 06:25 PM	#355
Harmon ( ͡ʘ╭͜ʖ╮͡ʘ) Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 20,010	That's horrible. I am very sorry for your loss.

11-24-2004, 06:42 PM	#357
MickeyG Confirmed User Join Date: May 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 4,134	what a horrible thing to happen, im very sorry for your loss.

11-24-2004, 06:57 PM	#361
Steen2 Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 7,662	Sarah, I am so sorry to hear this. My best wishes to you and your family for this Thanksgiving. __________________ ICQ: 2262.73945

11-24-2004, 06:57 PM	#362
hilly Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 867	Sorry, and my best wishes.

11-24-2004, 07:11 PM	#363
TheGoldenChild Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Pacific Palisades Posts: 6,940	I am at a loss for words- I hope you find peace and comfort throughout this ordeal. I am choked up reading about your tragic loss... you'll be in my prayers __________________

11-24-2004, 07:17 PM	#364
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11-24-2004, 07:19 PM	#366
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11-24-2004, 07:21 PM	#367
silent moan Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 1,908	sad to hear that..... my condolence and prayers are with you..... be strong Sarah

11-24-2004, 07:27 PM	#368
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11-24-2004, 07:31 PM	#369
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11-24-2004, 07:31 PM	#370
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11-24-2004, 07:36 PM	#371
OzMan Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Los Begas Posts: 9,162	Sarah, Although I haven't met you I know that you are more than strong enough to deal with this loss even if it feels like your whole world just caved in right now. He will always be with you and you can see him in your dreams.

11-24-2004, 07:37 PM	#372
SinBucks Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 331	My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

11-24-2004, 07:38 PM	#373
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11-24-2004, 07:45 PM	#374
Jer God is Brazilian Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Brazil Posts: 10,601	OMG, Sarah, I'm so sorry My condolences Rest in Peace Marc

11-24-2004, 07:48 PM	#375
shermo Guest Posts: n/a	I am so sorry. Please feel better and always remember the love you 2 shared. You are a great wife for being by his side at all times. My condolences.

11-24-2004, 07:55 PM	#376
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11-24-2004, 07:57 PM	#377
Kristian Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 3,733	Sarah, Those are the saddest words I have ever read. I know you only as a name on gfy and yet I'm shocked and upset for your loss. Right now you need friends and family to help you. I hope you can go to them, or they can come to you. I'm not an especially religious person, but I'll say a prayer for you tonight. I'm so sorry for your loss. Kristian

11-24-2004, 08:16 PM	#378
Ron_Artest So Fucking Banned Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 6	Sorry to hear that but now that makes you available. Would it be to soon to ask you out on some wild orgy?

11-24-2004, 08:19 PM	#379
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11-24-2004, 08:21 PM	#381
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11-24-2004, 08:23 PM	#382
Evil Chris OG Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: 3rd from the Sun Posts: 13,233	Sarah, I had learned of this on another board, but only read your post for the first time now. Heartfelt condolences from both Funbrunette and myself. You poor girl... Please be strong if you can. __________________ It PAYZE to post on GFY chris at payze.com \| Skype chriswrp

11-24-2004, 08:24 PM	#383
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11-24-2004, 08:28 PM	#384
Mutt Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 34,431	as somebody else said above Sarah I only know you as a name on GFY and that you work for Todd but my heart is heavy for you nonetheless - and for you husband. sincere condolense to all concerned. __________________ I moved my sites to Vacares Hosting. I've saved money, my hair is thicker, lost some weight too! Thanks Sly!

11-24-2004, 08:31 PM	#385
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11-24-2004, 08:36 PM	#386
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11-24-2004, 08:37 PM	#387
WebTitan Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Western NY Posts: 5,114	wow, that is a shame...i wish you well