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Sarah_Jayne · 11-24-2004, 12:59 PM

I just came back from the hospital. I was talking to someone on icq but I only have them as a number so please forgive me that I left you mid-conversation, I am a better buisness person than that.

He came up stairs saying he couldn't breath very well. He gets that sometimes because he has asthma. So, I sat him down and he was sweating and panting and I called 999 (same thing as 911) and between the time I called and the time they came and got him he had told me he loved me and passed out. I gave him mouth to mouth and got him around a little bit and he was in and out all through the ambulance ride and then in the hospital they couldn't figure out what was happening. They told me he would be okay but then suddenly he started to throw up and his eyes rolled back in his head and they made me leave and I knew.

Then I sat in the family area and waited. I knew what the doctor was going to say when she came in so I called his mother and sister and waited. Then the real doctor came in and started giving me medical jargon and I said 'if he dead?' I couldn't stand to listen to the jargon while he was going and I wasn't there. She said that yes, he was going to go and wanted to know if I wanted to see him. I said yes and she asked if I wanted them to clean his body up and I said no because marriage is messy, I am the one that cleaned his leg ulcers out every night..he dessrves for me to see him the way he died. I closed his yes, made them take out the air tube so I could kiss him goodbye and tell him I love him.

I am 28 years old, I am 3,000 miles away from home, the love of my life has just died and I am scared shitless. I have to now go do what I am putting off and call his kids and let them know and then my parents and ruin Thanksgiving for everyone for the rest of their lives.

Tomorrow just remember that most of you do have many things to be thankful for.

R.I.P. Marc...you are the love of my life.

media · 11-24-2004, 01:01 PM

omg.. so sorry sarah =(

JustJen · 11-24-2004, 01:01 PM

OMG, Sarah. I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

candyflip · 11-24-2004, 01:02 PM

Wow Sarah.

I'm sorry and offer whatever help I can.

I don't know what more to say.

Sarah_Jayne · 11-24-2004, 01:02 PM

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I have never said fuck you ane meant it so much.

detoxed · 11-24-2004, 01:02 PM

aww shit sucks to hear that. Good luck

MetaMan · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

dam that is sad.

im sorry for your loss.

QualityMpegs · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

omfg...im so sorry...i don't even know what to say...that's so very sad...best wishes and my condolences

neverlearn · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

Im so sorry...keep your chin up

ronaldo · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

Assuming he's around the same age, I'm speechless.

And wishing you the best.

Monique Niccole · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

Wow. Sorry to hear about your loss Sara. You might be far away, but you're in my thoughts.

QualityMpegs · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

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Originally posted by Batuss
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cocksucker

Keev · 11-24-2004, 01:03 PM

My condolences...

Marcus Aurelius · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

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Originally posted by Batuss
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Idiot.

Sarah,

So very sorry for your loss, thats completely horrible, there are no words to console you, very sorry for your loss.

volante · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

OWNED · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

how old was he ?

and what was the cause of death ?

Nicky · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

Im so sorry to hear about your big loss, my deepest sympathy goes to you.

Furious_Male · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

Terrible

. I will send positive karma to you and your family.

Yo Adrian · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

OMG Sarah I'm so sorry!!

I talked to him in Vegas last year, you two made a wonderful couple, he was a very personable and smart man. I'm sure he'll be missed greatly.

Rob · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

My condolences.

Raven · 11-24-2004, 01:04 PM

Oh my G'd, Sarah....I am so sorry to hear this.....

My hands are shaking....

DutchTeenCash · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

holy shit what a story... my condolences and yes i do realize im a lucky bastard every day i look at the love of my life

duca · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

sorry to hear that sarah ...... Stay strong

Sly_RJ · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

I'm very sorry Sarah. Try to stay strong.

Sarah_Jayne · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

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Originally posted by OWNED
how old was he ?

and what was the cause of death ?

45, heart attack and ashtma attack..I will no much more tomorrow.

xclusive · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

I am so sorry about your loss. You should take some time for yourself and reflect on his life not his death...

BuckLover · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

OMG: I am so sorry to hear this! How old was he?

I am hearing these storie more and more lately!

Trixxxia · 11-24-2004, 01:05 PM

Sarah from the bottom of my heart, my sympathies. Be strong - I've read your many posts of how you met and what brought you two together. You were blessed with his love on this earth and that will be with you forever. May he rest in peace. Be strong. If you need anything even if it's just to talk - I'm online all the time.

Theo · 11-24-2004, 01:06 PM

god damn. Im so sorry Sarah for your loss.

Mogulman · 11-24-2004, 01:06 PM

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you are a horrible fucking person for posting this.

StuartD · 11-24-2004, 01:06 PM

wow.... that's horrible Sarah... I'm so sorry to hear it... truly.

I can't imagine what you must be going through. Try to be strong.

volante · 11-24-2004, 01:06 PM

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Originally posted by Batuss
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Probably the most heartless post I have ever seen...

sweetums · 11-24-2004, 01:07 PM

I'm so sorry, sarah

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....

Theo · 11-24-2004, 01:07 PM

i'm speechless, so sad

CyberTraffic · 11-24-2004, 01:07 PM

There sure is a lot of misery going around recently.

I'm sorry Sarah. I don't know how it is possible to console someone over the internet, but I hope all the replies will do the trick.

baddog · 11-24-2004, 01:08 PM

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You have just confirmed that you are the biggest fucking idiot on this board, and that is saying something.

I am truly sorry Sarah, I will keep you in my thoughts

undermyspell · 11-24-2004, 01:08 PM

Sarah it's tough to realize now but you will eventually make it through the heartbreak. You are a strong lady and have proved it day in and day out with your love, support and care of him. You are truly an inspiration to those of us that have cared for loved ones and watched them die. I lost my father 5 years ago after caring for him daily.. My heart and thoughts go out to you.

I didn't want to put this in the same thread but Battuss.. I hope you choke on a turkey bone.. you're an ass

MT_Butterfly · 11-24-2004, 01:08 PM

OMG! I am SO sorry, Sarah! You must be in shock now but I can honestly say I know what you are going through. We don't know each other, but it's been obvious from reading your posts over the past few years that you had a very wonderful relationship with your husband. I am so sorry for you tremendous loss.

There are no words that anyone can say that will help you out right now. Grieving is a process and not an event, but if you EVER need anything, please feel free to ICQ me. A big hug to you and my prayers will be with you.

Nader · 11-24-2004, 01:08 PM

Very sorry to hear that! My condolences

Phoenix · 11-24-2004, 01:09 PM

oh that really sucks...sorry

Meloman · 11-24-2004, 01:09 PM

My deepest condolences Sarah.

Battuss, that is probably the most tacky, no class, inconsiderate thing I've seen yet on this board.

cfU · 11-24-2004, 01:09 PM

sarah, not much I can say but that I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Meta Ridley · 11-24-2004, 01:10 PM

Sorry Sarah. Wish you the best if that is anything rite now.

Gabriel · 11-24-2004, 01:10 PM

I am sorry for your loss Sarah. Although we've never met you'll be in our thoughts and prayers tomorrow.

who · 11-24-2004, 01:10 PM

People live, people die. But, the important bit is the 'living' part...

I hope you have a good mourning, it'll help you to recover emotionally.

Good luck.

Holly · 11-24-2004, 01:11 PM

I am so, so sorry for your loss Sarah. I can't even begin to imagine how horrible this is for you.

Call someone to be with you right now.

Just_Dave · 11-24-2004, 01:11 PM

Sorry to hear about your loss Sara . My condolences

Trixxxia · 11-24-2004, 01:11 PM

In Battuss' defence - this one, I believe is an imposter - Batuss 15 posts - not the one that normally posts here.

Peaches · 11-24-2004, 01:11 PM

Holy shit, Sarah!

This is completely breaking my heart.

If there is ANYTHING ANY of us can do, PLEASE know that we will!

Are there any webmasters near you? We need to find someone near there - London?

Geeze. What a pisser!

Again, please take advantage of the support group you have here and don't go it along.

And battus, you suck.

Fletch XXX · 11-24-2004, 01:11 PM

First, my condolences.

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Originally posted by Batuss
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Folks, this is not Battuss, its a troll. Note spelling of name.

11-24-2004, 12:59 PM	#1
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	My husband just died I just came back from the hospital. I was talking to someone on icq but I only have them as a number so please forgive me that I left you mid-conversation, I am a better buisness person than that. He came up stairs saying he couldn't breath very well. He gets that sometimes because he has asthma. So, I sat him down and he was sweating and panting and I called 999 (same thing as 911) and between the time I called and the time they came and got him he had told me he loved me and passed out. I gave him mouth to mouth and got him around a little bit and he was in and out all through the ambulance ride and then in the hospital they couldn't figure out what was happening. They told me he would be okay but then suddenly he started to throw up and his eyes rolled back in his head and they made me leave and I knew. Then I sat in the family area and waited. I knew what the doctor was going to say when she came in so I called his mother and sister and waited. Then the real doctor came in and started giving me medical jargon and I said 'if he dead?' I couldn't stand to listen to the jargon while he was going and I wasn't there. She said that yes, he was going to go and wanted to know if I wanted to see him. I said yes and she asked if I wanted them to clean his body up and I said no because marriage is messy, I am the one that cleaned his leg ulcers out every night..he dessrves for me to see him the way he died. I closed his yes, made them take out the air tube so I could kiss him goodbye and tell him I love him. I am 28 years old, I am 3,000 miles away from home, the love of my life has just died and I am scared shitless. I have to now go do what I am putting off and call his kids and let them know and then my parents and ruin Thanksgiving for everyone for the rest of their lives. Tomorrow just remember that most of you do have many things to be thankful for. R.I.P. Marc...you are the love of my life.

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JustJen Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 1,233	OMG, Sarah. I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you. __________________ icq:175766581

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candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,064	Wow Sarah. I'm sorry and offer whatever help I can. I don't know what more to say. __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me

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11-24-2004, 01:02 PM	#6
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	aww shit sucks to hear that. Good luck

11-24-2004, 01:03 PM	#7
MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	dam that is sad. im sorry for your loss.

11-24-2004, 01:03 PM	#8
QualityMpegs Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Orlando, Florida Posts: 3,521	omfg...im so sorry...i don't even know what to say...that's so very sad...best wishes and my condolences

11-24-2004, 01:03 PM	#10
ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	Assuming he's around the same age, I'm speechless. And wishing you the best.

11-24-2004, 01:03 PM	#11
Monique Niccole Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: San Francisco Posts: 5,653	Wow. Sorry to hear about your loss Sara. You might be far away, but you're in my thoughts.

11-24-2004, 01:03 PM	#13
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OWNED So Fucking Banned Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 852	how old was he ? and what was the cause of death ?

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Nicky Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sweden Posts: 30,069	Im so sorry to hear about your big loss, my deepest sympathy goes to you. __________________ gfynicky @ gmail.com

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Furious_Male Doing the grind since 99 Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Buffalo NY Posts: 16,881	Terrible . I will send positive karma to you and your family. __________________ Living in Virtual Reality Contact: Email (preferred): furiousmale .at. gmail - Skype: live:shanedws

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Yo Adrian Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Phoenix, AZ Posts: 6,326	OMG Sarah I'm so sorry!! I talked to him in Vegas last year, you two made a wonderful couple, he was a very personable and smart man. I'm sure he'll be missed greatly. __________________ Adult SEO Partners - Full service Adult SEO Agency serving some of the biggest names in the industry.

11-24-2004, 01:04 PM	#20
Rob I'm a great bowler. Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Right Outside of Normal. Posts: 13,309	My condolences. __________________

11-24-2004, 01:04 PM	#21
Raven Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 6,874	Oh my G'd, Sarah....I am so sorry to hear this..... My hands are shaking.... __________________ Raven ~RETIRED~

11-24-2004, 01:05 PM	#22
DutchTeenCash I like Dutch Girls Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: dutchteencash.com Posts: 21,684	holy shit what a story... my condolences and yes i do realize im a lucky bastard every day i look at the love of my life __________________ ICQ 16 91 547 - SKYPE dutchteencash bob AT dutchteencash DOT com ... did you see our newest Sweet Natural Girl Priscilla (18)?

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duca Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 22	sorry to hear that sarah ...... Stay strong __________________ My sig was changed cause I don't know how to read the rules on this page http://www.gofuckyourself.com/gfy_faqs.html You can contact me about getting on as an advertiser - eric AT adult.com

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Sly_RJ Live Hard - Die Hard Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Ready to leave... Posts: 17,042	I'm very sorry Sarah. Try to stay strong. __________________ PHAT SERVERS - Quality dedicated hosting at a quality price! sly AT phatservers DOT com - 147479144

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xclusive Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Buffalo, NY Posts: 35,218	I am so sorry about your loss. You should take some time for yourself and reflect on his life not his death... __________________ I support MediumPimpin.com / Shemp's Outlawtgp.com /

11-24-2004, 01:05 PM	#27
BuckLover Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: I'm everywhere Bitches!! Posts: 1,656	OMG: I am so sorry to hear this! How old was he? I am hearing these storie more and more lately!

11-24-2004, 01:05 PM	#28
Trixxxia Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 5,600	Sarah from the bottom of my heart, my sympathies. Be strong - I've read your many posts of how you met and what brought you two together. You were blessed with his love on this earth and that will be with you forever. May he rest in peace. Be strong. If you need anything even if it's just to talk - I'm online all the time.

11-24-2004, 01:06 PM	#29
Theo HAL 9000 Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 34,515	god damn. Im so sorry Sarah for your loss.

11-24-2004, 01:06 PM	#31
StuartD Sofa King Band Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Outside the box Posts: 29,903	wow.... that's horrible Sarah... I'm so sorry to hear it... truly. I can't imagine what you must be going through. Try to be strong. __________________ This is me on facebook This is me on twitter

11-24-2004, 01:07 PM	#33
sweetums Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Icy Hellish Tundra Posts: 2,534	I'm so sorry, sarah My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.... __________________ ICQ: 114549321

11-24-2004, 01:07 PM	#35
CyberTraffic Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Traffic Land ~ ICQ:213666533 Posts: 2,187	There sure is a lot of misery going around recently. I'm sorry Sarah. I don't know how it is possible to console someone over the internet, but I hope all the replies will do the trick.

11-24-2004, 01:08 PM	#37
undermyspell Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 875	Sarah it's tough to realize now but you will eventually make it through the heartbreak. You are a strong lady and have proved it day in and day out with your love, support and care of him. You are truly an inspiration to those of us that have cared for loved ones and watched them die. I lost my father 5 years ago after caring for him daily.. My heart and thoughts go out to you. I didn't want to put this in the same thread but Battuss.. I hope you choke on a turkey bone.. you're an ass

11-24-2004, 01:08 PM	#38
MT_Butterfly Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Montana Posts: 687	OMG! I am SO sorry, Sarah! You must be in shock now but I can honestly say I know what you are going through. We don't know each other, but it's been obvious from reading your posts over the past few years that you had a very wonderful relationship with your husband. I am so sorry for you tremendous loss. There are no words that anyone can say that will help you out right now. Grieving is a process and not an event, but if you EVER need anything, please feel free to ICQ me. A big hug to you and my prayers will be with you. __________________ No sig for you!

11-24-2004, 01:08 PM	#39
Nader Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Los Angeles, Ca Posts: 5,086	Very sorry to hear that! My condolences

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Phoenix BACON BACON BACON Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Poems everybody, the laddie fancies himself a poet Posts: 35,462	oh that really sucks...sorry __________________ Skype Phoenixskype1 Telegram PhoenixBrad https://quantads.io

11-24-2004, 01:09 PM	#41
Meloman Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Sacramento,CA Posts: 1,540	My deepest condolences Sarah. Battuss, that is probably the most tacky, no class, inconsiderate thing I've seen yet on this board. Last edited by Meloman; 11-24-2004 at 01:13 PM..

11-24-2004, 01:09 PM	#42
cfU Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 933	sarah, not much I can say but that I am deeply sorry for your loss.

11-24-2004, 01:10 PM	#43
Meta Ridley Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: The land of ruleface and kickass Posts: 3,433	Sorry Sarah. Wish you the best if that is anything rite now. __________________ [email protected] Last edited by Meta Ridley; 11-24-2004 at 01:13 PM..