Date or Marry a girl with KIDS?

[GAMEFINEST]

Would you Marry a girl with Kids?

Personally I would never.

[shake]

Yes I might, but being careful as where I live at least if you live together long enough and get separated you pay the child support... Yes even though they're not your kids.

[PornDiscounts-V]

Depends. I also had a kid. So we got married. After twenty two years.

[OneHungLo]

I've had a few friends get divorced and the horror I witnessed them endure there's no way in hell I would ever put myself in situation. Both of these guys had 6 figure incomes and both ended up back living with their parents because they couldn't afford their exwife's mortgage payment, alimony, child support etc.

My sister just got divorced after 10 years of marriage. The poor son of a bitch has to pay her this ridiculous alimony payment till he retires (in 9 years) and then she gets 30% of his pension...FOR LIFE! And he has to cover her heath insurance... FOR LIFE!!


Check your local alimony laws before you jump into anything.

[k0nr4d]

Even though my step dad basically raised me thus taking a woman with a kid, I don't think I could do it. It's hard enough to love your own kids sometimes let alone someone elses. Besides that, her having a kid is basically irrefutable proof that someone was cumming in the pussy you're eating, and i'd always have that on the back of my mind.

[Mr Pheer]

Originally Posted by OneHungLo

I've had a few friends get divorced and the horror I witnessed them endure there's no way in hell I would ever put myself in situation. Both of these guys had 6 figure incomes and both ended up back living with their parents because they couldn't afford their exwife's mortgage payment, alimony, child support etc.

My sister just got divorced after 10 years of marriage. The poor son of a bitch has to pay her this ridiculous alimony payment till he retires (in 9 years) and then she gets 30% of his pension...FOR LIFE! And he has to cover her heath insurance... FOR LIFE!!


Check your local alimony laws before you jump into anything.

My divorce lawyer was expensive, but she was worth every penny. A good lawyer will cost you way less than half your shit and alimony and child support. A really good lawyer gets you custody of the kid, no alimony, and a judgement against the ex for the legal fees they brought as well

Of course, being a decent human being and an outstanding father plays a lot into that. The courts aren't going to reward a piece of shit person, even with a good attorney.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

My divorce lawyer was expensive, but she was worth every penny. A good lawyer will cost you way less than half your shit and alimony and child support. A really good lawyer gets you custody of the kid, no alimony, and a judgement against the ex for the legal fees they brought as well

Of course, being a decent human being and an outstanding father plays a lot into that. The courts aren't going to reward a piece of shit person, even with a good attorney.

Actually, if you know how to represent yourself a lawyer is an unnecessary expense. And courts have to follow the law, no matter if someone is a dick or not.

[Paul Markham]

As if you have any control on who you fall in love with. LOL

Living with someone saves the hassle of divorce.

[davidCRM]

i would not. if i take care of a kid it would be my own.

it's like when playing a game, loading up someone else's save and continuing it.

hookups with gals w/ kids is a whole different story though

[ghjghj]

Originally Posted by shake

Yes I might

accommodating birds

[adultinnovation]

A Girl with Kids? Why would you even marry a Girl to begin with.

There's zero benefit for a Man to get married.
Females will ruin your life eventually. Stay single and happy.

[femdomdestiny]

never. not even if it is the last woman in the world.

[Klen]

Originally Posted by Paul Markham

As if you have any control on who you fall in love with. LOL

Yep, if there is one right factor, it can override 10 other negative factors.

[JSWENSON]

Originally Posted by JFK2

Actually, if you know how to represent yourself a lawyer is an unnecessary expense. And courts have to follow the law, no matter if someone is a dick or not.

Is everyone tired of these overmedicated, ridiculous posts yet? Guy bumped his head in a motorcycle accident 15 years ago and it gets worse constantly.

[Ferus]

Originally Posted by JFK2

Actually, if you know how to represent yourself a lawyer is an unnecessary expense. And courts have to follow the law, no matter if someone is a dick or not.

Keep dreaming Paul2

[Beaver1]

Most of you guys are older than brown coal.
Where should the virgins, without children come from, at your age?

[Brian mike]

Originally Posted by Beaver1

Most of you guys are older than brown coal.
Where should the virgins, without children come from, at your age?

ex Lesbian ?

[Zuzana Designs]

Originally Posted by k0nr4d

Even though my step dad basically raised me thus taking a woman with a kid, I don't think I could do it. It's hard enough to love your own kids sometimes let alone someone elses. Besides that, her having a kid is basically irrefutable proof that someone was cumming in the pussy you're eating, and i'd always have that on the back of my mind.

LOLZ

[Klen]

Originally Posted by Brian mike

ex Lesbian ?

18 year old girl ?

[Paul&John]

Originally Posted by k0nr4d

Even though my step dad basically raised me thus taking a woman with a kid, I don't think I could do it. It's hard enough to love your own kids sometimes let alone someone elses. Besides that, her having a kid is basically irrefutable proof that someone was cumming in the pussy you're eating, and i'd always have that on the back of my mind.

Time to eat ass then?

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by Paul&John

Time to eat ass then?

Or, what comes out of ass?

You know, just so as you are one more step further removed...

[candyflip]

I married one with a kid. And she married me with three of my own.

[trevesty]

Originally Posted by JFK2

Actually, if you know how to represent yourself a lawyer is an unnecessary expense. And courts have to follow the law, no matter if someone is a dick or not.

Yeah, this is true for small claims court or other petty shit. Otherwise pretty terrible advice.

[3xmedia]

Depends. I think it's quite different if you a young healthy man with no kids or if you are older and maybe have your own kids already.

[JSWENSON]

Originally Posted by trevesty

Yeah, this is true for small claims court or other petty shit. Otherwise pretty terrible advice.

Shhh, don't interrupt nappy time.

[King Mark]

I have a step daughter. It is what it is. I treat her like my own, I get along with her dad. Me and him actually kinda "co-parent" her. We make sure we're on the same page with everything so it's the same rules and regulations regardless who's house she's in.

As an alpha, I don't have the typical worries.

[CaptainHowdy]

[PR_Glen]

Originally Posted by k0nr4d

Even though my step dad basically raised me thus taking a woman with a kid, I don't think I could do it. It's hard enough to love your own kids sometimes let alone someone elses. Besides that, her having a kid is basically irrefutable proof that someone was cumming in the pussy you're eating, and i'd always have that on the back of my mind.

so you only date virgins? how horrible for you...

[PR_Glen]

Originally Posted by Beaver1

Most of you guys are older than brown coal.
Where should the virgins, without children come from, at your age?

first thing that came to mind when i read this thread title...

Although the marriage laws in the US are ridiculous and I can almost understand the hesitation there.

[adultinnovation]

Originally Posted by King Mark

As an alpha, I don't have the typical worries.

An Alpha doesn't raise other Lions cubs. He eats them.

You're just a Beta provider.

[InfoGuy]

Originally Posted by trevesty

Yeah, this is true for small claims court or other petty shit. Otherwise pretty terrible advice.

To understand his perspective, you have to look at it from the standpoint of someone who has limited assets. In Civil Court, such a person is judgment proof.

[Forest]

married a woman with 2 kids. They are my kids now.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by Ferus

Keep dreaming Paul2

I represented myself in my last divorce, I speak from experience

[CamTraffic]

Marriage is a scam, (but without it, porn sales would suck) don't do it!

[Rochard]

The woman I dated before I met my wife had a nine year old daughter. I love kids and I sort of enjoyed being a "dad". When we broke up it was really hard because I felt like I lost two people. Years later she hit me up on FB and thanked me for being a part of her life. It was kind of neat.

No, I would never get involved with someone who had kids. I would never do that again.

[trevesty]

Originally Posted by JFK2

I represented myself in my last divorce, I speak from experience

It's still pretty terrible advice. I have a friend who "represented himself" but it was all extremely amicable anyways so no reason to spend money on an attorney for either party. That's usually not the case; especially if there are considerable assets involved.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by trevesty

Yeah, this is true for small claims court or other petty shit. Otherwise pretty terrible advice.

If you truly understand English you should not ignore "if you know how to represent yourself."

[baddog]

Originally Posted by trevesty

It's still pretty terrible advice. I have a friend who "represented himself" but it was all extremely amicable anyways so no reason to spend money on an attorney for either party. That's usually not the case; especially if there are considerable assets involved.

2 homes
2 kids
1 car
1 truck
2 Harleys

I got everything but the car (Dodge Caravan), and got 50/50 custody of my kids with no alimony. I did have to give her 20% of my pension. Nothing amicable; it took a couple years to finish.

[JSWENSON]

Originally Posted by JFK2

If you truly understand English you should not ignore "if you know how to represent yourself."

If you understand anecdotes you'd know why nobody should give a fuck about yours. It is known that representing yourself in court is a bad fucking idea. Many judges don't like it in the first place, you definitely don't know as much as you think as shown in your decade + of GFY history and it's a stupid gamble to take. This is extra special true in a damn divorce court.

[King Mark]

Originally Posted by adultinnovation

An Alpha doesn't raise other Lions cubs. He eats them.

You're just a Beta provider.

I don't identify with lions bro.

In civilized human society, if you chose to be in a person's life then the kids are part of the package.

Only a real alpha man (the human kind) can fulfill those duties.

When the kid is at my house I provide for her as my own. When she's at her dad's he does his thing.

You'd probably get small dick syndrome around a man who's slayed your wife in the past. That's not a thought for an alpha.

I also bring a kid to the table and the wife does her step mom thing as well.

There's no petty fuckshit. I deal with alphas. It's an alphaganza.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by JSWENSON

If you understand anecdotes you'd know why nobody should give a fuck about yours. It is known that representing yourself in court is a bad fucking idea. Many judges don't like it in the first place, you definitely don't know as much as you think as shown in your decade + of GFY history and it's a stupid gamble to take. This is extra special true in a damn divorce court.

A couple of the involved judges were quite impressed with my paperwork; one even expressed doubts that I really did it myself.

Opposing counsel told me later he would never underestimate a Pro Per again.

[JSWENSON]

Originally Posted by JFK2

A couple of the involved judges were quite impressed with my paperwork; one even expressed doubts that I really did it myself.

Opposing counsel told me later he would never underestimate a Pro Per again.

Bro, we're fucking around here and I have no doubt that you can write up paperwork. But your experience isn't true in a lot of cases and there are a ton of judges that get really pissy about people representing themselves. So many states that automatically give women the horse, car, house and kids that going in without a lawyer is like asking to be robbed blind and dropped in the ocean.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by JSWENSON

Bro, we're fucking around here and I have no doubt that you can write up paperwork. But your experience isn't true in a lot of cases and there are a ton of judges that get really pissy about people representing themselves. So many states that automatically give women the horse, car, house and kids that going in without a lawyer is like asking to be robbed blind and dropped in the ocean.

Lucky for me, the year my proceedings started was the first year of the Family Law Code in California. I think I had an advantage over opposing counsel in that he had to scrap what he knew and learn new laws which actually dumped the "wife gets everything" bullshit.

[incredibleworkethic]

I'm in my 30s, I guess I can still go for younger 20-25 who haven't had kids still. But as I get older, women typically have kids. I have 2. Who am I to say anything.

Kids are a part of the deal if you go down the dating route.

What is kind of annoying is when you make plans and they use their kids as the excuse for it not working. I get there's plenty of times you might have to pass on a plan because of kids. I would do it for mine. But I would seriously gauge how badly I'm needed. Scrape on the knee, nope, doctor or hospital, definitely.

The deal is put up what you can handle or willing to adjust for. Just don't do it because it's good sex or it seems like a good idea.

I'm debating staying single for some time. No one in their 20s/30s seems to have their shit together in my area and the ones that do are taken lol.

Then if they are single, they're still getting over the ex. Can't win. So I'll just sit back and call up whoever I know I have fun with and make a time out of that. They know I want to be single so I'm not fucking around either.

[adultinnovation]

Reverse psychology doesn't work on me

[SilentKnight]

Originally Posted by GAMEFINEST

Would you Marry a girl with Kids?

Been there/done that.

Still together after 24 years...married for 21.

Raised her two daughters as my own.

We met online over a local BBS before the 'net existed. I told her in a pvt message before we met IRL I wasn't interested in:

1) a relationship
2) redheads
3) chicks with kids

Three years later those stipulations went out the window.

[Constant Phil]

Originally Posted by JFK2

Actually, if you know how to represent yourself a lawyer is an unnecessary expense. And courts have to follow the law, no matter if someone is a dick or not.

I guess youve never been to traffic court before

[JSWENSON]

Originally Posted by JFK2

Lucky for me, the year my proceedings started was the first year of the Family Law Code in California. I think I had an advantage over opposing counsel in that he had to scrap what he knew and learn new laws which actually dumped the "wife gets everything" bullshit.

They'll give custody and money to women that abuse their kids here then make the guy pay her lawyer fees.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by Constant Phil

I guess youve never been to traffic court before

I have a large file of traffic tickets I have fought and won. I even took two to the appellate level and got one conviction overturned.

[~Evilin~]

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